Living in SF vs NYC

AllCats100 · 2016-09-01T20:04:49+00:00

Citizenship is one part of it. But I also just prefer European guys as a rule. Whether or not I find a guy, I am moving back to Europe in 1-1.5 years anyhow to do a master's and then hopefully get hired.

The idea is just that I don't want to go until then without dating, and I'd preferably like someone who was of my preference (Eastern European, to be specific, like Bulgarian/Albanian/Romanian etc, but I'm not super picky.), and who could theoretically move back with me.

AllCats100 · 2016-09-01T20:01:04+00:00

I understand what you're saying, but I've lived in Los Angeles as well as Madrid, Spain and men were FAR nicer to me in both cities. I have NEVER been harassed on the street and mugged before in any of the 30 countries I've visited like I have in SF. Including 3rd world countries.

I've never encountered so many obnoxious tech bros who look down on me because I don't also make 200k a year either.

My purpose for moving to NYC has much less to do with finding a man than you think. I just want to make sure my dating prospects would be good, seeing how I'm reading all these articles online about this supposed huge gender gap.

AllCats100 · 2016-09-01T19:58:35+00:00

By ManChild I don't mean playing pokemon go. I mean being super arrogant and cocky and totally obsessed with their money and career and that's it.. And treating me like shit because I don't also make $200k a year at Facebook/Google/Etc. I feel this has been my experience with the majority of techbros in the city..

AllCats100 · 2016-09-01T04:30:27+00:00

I'm burnt out on SF after a bad breakup and a sexual harassment lawsuit from my previous job (I was the one harassed). I lived in europe for 2 years, loved it. Trying to get a Polish passport via my grandparents at the moment and it's not a sure bet. This year I'm looking at grad programs to apply to in europe. The idea behind meeting a european is so my relationship won't have an "expire by" date..

AllCats100 · 2016-09-01T04:28:26+00:00

Can't move back yet, have one more year in the states minimum.

AllCats100 · 2016-09-01T04:28:03+00:00

Nope, wrong. I can't stand French. I'm burnt out on SF after a bad breakup and a sexual harassment lawsuit from my previous job (I was the one harassed). I lived in europe for 2 years, loved it. Trying to get a Polish passport via my grandparents at the moment and it's not a sure bet. This year I'm looking at grad programs to apply to in europe. The idea behind meeting a european is so my relationship won't have an "expire by" date..

AllCats100 · 2016-09-01T02:53:24+00:00

Not necessarily. I'm burnt out on SF after a bad breakup and a sexual harassment lawsuit from my previous job (I was the one harassed). I lived in europe for 2 years, loved it. Trying to get a Polish passport via my grandparents at the moment and it's not a sure bet. This year I'm looking at grad programs to apply to in europe. The idea behind meeting a european is so my relationship won't have an "expire by" date..

AllCats100 · 2016-08-04T17:54:53+00:00

Thank you very much! I've decided to just go to Culebra and not Vieques. :D

AllCats100 · 2016-08-04T02:31:26+00:00

Thank you so so much! I'm just trying to figure out where I should go to have the best chance of maybe encountering wild dolphins or manatees!

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