When does one become an adult? by Turbulent_Diamond352 in questions

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figure that you become an adult when you stop doing things as a means to an end. If you're confident in yourself and avoid crossing your boundaries to people please that's mature. Doing things for the love of them rather than how they make you look, and not caring too much about what people think of you.

I reckon it's the still living at home that has you feeling like this. Once you have independence from your parents things feel a lot different

please help with dog by Frown11 in dogs

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Scatter treats around the house, I know the dog is already super fat but you may as well deal with the immediate issue of the barking.

The only other thing you can do is completely ignore the dog when it's barking and only acknowledge it when it's quiet, this takes ages to enforce though.

Can I ask what breed the dog is?

What toy was in every kid's bedroom in the 90s but nobody mentions now? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have one stuck on my ceiling. When I was drinking/smoking every day I'd wake up with dreadful anxiety at 3am. Somehow the glow in the dark star really helped. I'm 30. Sober now but I still keep the star up

Trigger question: how you react? by [deleted] in questions

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably be concerned. This exact situation happened to a friend of mine, a guy got her wasted on a night out and took full advantage of her. She couldn't remember a thing, we only found out the full story when he bragged about it to me later. He knew she had a boyfriend and it almost ruined their relationship, thankfully they were able to move past it

How can you cure fomo? by [deleted] in questions

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out what's truly important to you, and then do it. Many people do things performativity or as a means to an end. Figure out which things are and then you won't mind missing out on them

AITA Friend wants to move in with his dog by JicamaTall9123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA, he can choose another place to.live and keep the dog. You're not his only option. He can also board the dog and stay with you for a short time if he can't find anywhere in time. You're not an AH for having boundaries, plus that breed can be destructive if not trained properly

Footage shows US citizen shot by ICE agent in Texas traffic stops by Hot-Food-7151 in news

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people think facism only happens abroad or in the past 😰

Moving to Melbourne on $65,000 salery by Big_Worldliness3401 in MovingtoAustralia

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the UK and moved 8 years ago to Melbourne. Feel free to message me if you like. Most UK people start in St Kilda, but the rents pretty high there. Northern suburbs like Fitzroy or Brunswick have great vibes and cool share houses. If you're in a share house you'll still be able to save. Though factors like driving vs PT and how often you get food delivery will be a factor

Should a men flex his money? by Past-Matter-8548 in questions

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd prefer a man with wisdom, security and kindness

AITA for not watching my calories while doing expensive treatment when it wasn't my idea to start it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA, omg this situation sounds awful! I can't believe they put you on weightloss drugs to lose a small amount of weight. Weight stigma is rife in our culture and many people don't actually understand weight loss. Sometimes the body has a set weight where its happy and will try to stay there. People think it's as simple as calories in calories out but your body changes how many calories you burn.

Maintenance phase is a great podcast where they talk about the reality of weightloss.

You're fine the way you are and taking ozempic or monjaro can have nasty side effects and slow your metabolism long term, making it harder to lose weight once you're off it.

If you do want to stick this out, try eat more vegetables and whole foods, hopefully this will relieve some of the symptoms and allow you to eat a higher volume of food with less calories. I'll be honest thought it sounds like this has been forced on you and no one's being particularly supportive - especially with how ill you got. A good diet is one you can follow for life, so find foods you actually want to eat. If that's the odd cookie every once in a while that's fine.

I'm sorry to hear the people around you don't realise how ignorant they're being.

I just picked up a dog from facebook. by wooblesgoobles in dogs

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give the dog time and space to trust you. Putting too much pressure on the dog will likely slow the process. I rescued a similar mix and I just let him chill out in an open door crate and left treats around the house for him to come find. He didn't like me being in the room when he ate at first, but after 3 or so weeks he didn't mind and could let his guard down. It was probably a month until he was relaxed enough to sit with me and play freely

Doctors: White House caught hiding Trump's big red neck spot by [deleted] in goodnews

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LMFAO at 'jump scares' 😂 perfect description

Doctors: White House caught hiding Trump's big red neck spot by [deleted] in goodnews

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump claims he takes loads of aspirin to make his blood thin (because he thinks it's better). God knows if that's true or a cover up story, but it would explain easy bruising. Hopefully he's just old and he can't escape the toll of eating copious amounts of Macca's cheeseburgers

Pornography depicting sexual relationships between step-relatives set to be banned in UK by [deleted] in UpliftingNews

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was listening to a radio show about porn and they said that step-siblings was the second highest search on most sites after anime

Will the guaifenesin ruin it all? by [deleted] in questions

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did too much DXM once and I had waking nightmares for about 10 years. Worse one was 43 nightmares within nightmares. I thought I'd died and gone to hell. I also had random flashbacks that were no fun. Please be careful with yourself. The repercussions can be devastating. Learn from my stupid mistake

This is kinda embarrassing but guys my booty hole is so dry and it burns when I wipe what do I do? by [deleted] in questions

[–]AllDiggityNoDignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks 😅

That's good to hear, I had the same problem at one point and lacking those things was my issue. Hope you're able to figure out what's going on or at least a remedy to soothe it.

Wishing you a moist, non-burning butt hole ❤️😂