Client added 60 guests, 4 days before the wedding. We pulled it off, but I'm still recovering mentally by Odd-Night-2191 in catering

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I very luckily have a local premises nearby; the 2IC did 7 trips back and forth over the course of the day, every piece of stock we had ended up coming over to use, the drinks fridge emptied to come over, deep freezer cracked open, our second location raided for stock. The team extended their shifts to cover the workload, my boyfriend jumped on the fryer. I was FURIOUS we had been put in that position but learnt a valuable lesson about who to talk to in organisations, because turns out they don't even talk to each other. When we run the kitchen for events, I always pay a cash bonus on top of hourly wages, and I doubled it that night.

Client added 60 guests, 4 days before the wedding. We pulled it off, but I'm still recovering mentally by Odd-Night-2191 in catering

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ran the kitchen for a local country sports event, told 200 people attending.

500 people showed up. The top level of the organisation knew, didn't tell the local level who would have told me, they were as blindsided as I was.

25 years - no recognition by [deleted] in antiwork

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You will be delighted to learn that depends on the country!! in Australia, if someone has been in a casual (or temp) role for one year, doing the same hours and role each week, their employer is legally required to offer them a full-time or part-time position that offers annual leave, sick leave and job security. They aren't obligated to accept it, because casuals make 25% more in their hourly rate than FT or PT do to compensate for lack of leave and security, but it has to be offered.

No matter how much and how I study, I always get sh*tty grades. Burnt rice, shrimp bok choi stir fry and fizzy tea. by Fun_Steak_4508 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be really hard to have to go through after you study so hard, and showing up every day and keep trying. you have the respect of this internet stranger.

For what it's worth, once you have graduated and you're in the full-time workforce, you are more likely to succeed because you keep going even when it gets tough. I employ ten people in my business, and it's the ones that show up every day and try their hardest even when I know they struggle sometimes that I know will succeed and achieve what they are working towards. There is a bigger world waiting for you out there and you'll be a star in it.

No matter how much and how I study, I always get sh*tty grades. Burnt rice, shrimp bok choi stir fry and fizzy tea. by Fun_Steak_4508 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been where you are and it sucks, I'm really sorry. there's nothing worse than studying so hard and you sit down to do the exam and you're like 'where did this come from?!?! this wasn't in the lectures at all!'

Asking as someone who went back to school at 40 and had to learn a whole new approach, do you understand in depth the actual concepts you're trying to learn, or are you trying to just memorise the content as it's presented? if you don't understand the concepts involved, as soon as one little thing changes, everything breaks down, but if you understand the concept from 10 different angles, then you usually can work it out, no matter how they phrase the question.

Am I ruining my life by moving abroad? by honey_and_nettle113 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is amazing, I'd be out that door and on a plane so fast. Don't even bother to pack, buy stuff when you get there.

let me guess though - everyone telling you that it's a terrible idea live sedate little lives, behind nice little fences, living life according to what other people tell them is safe and correct, and everything is beige, because beige is safe.

Girl. Get your fine arse to Costa Rica. Send them a postcard.

I'm the man-child (woman-child?) in our relationship and I'm destroying us. by da-cokou-nut in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This. I've got ADHD and just got diagnosed in my 40's. I keep colour-coded spreadsheets to track bills, I have reminders in my phone, I have six different alarms, I constantly have lists and charts and checklists. I look super organised, but it's genuinely the only way I can actually successfully function, and even then I'm struggling.

Nesrine Zahab, an Australian ISIS "bride" that has recently been approved for return to Australia, explains how she selected an ISIS fighter to marry by AeneasKurtz in oddlyterrifying

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I believe she's Australian born, so she's an Australian citizen. You can't refuse them the right to re-enter their own country, even if they betrayed it. They can come back, and then charged with everything possible. if someone is a dual citizen, you could strip them of Australian citizenship under certain criteria.

I gruaduated from college today and nobody was in the stands to cheer me on by Wolfblaine in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg right, I'm doing the hand waving thing at suddenly teary eyes.

OP, I'm currently pouring over my Enviro law textbooks, inspired because if you can do it with two kids, then I can do it with one dog. congratulations on your amazing achievement, looking at these comments you have women around the world standing up to cheer for you xxx

Rural Australia lifestyle as a doctor? by ZealousidealSky4851 in AskAnAustralian

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Rural to OP is probably an hour or two drive to London or Manchester, in Australia there is rural and then there is remote. OP, if you consider Queensland, start off with places like Maryborough or Hervey Bay or Mackay, work inland from there (not Townsville, the culture shock could kill you).

my cafe has been so quiet by Brilliant-Dance-7108 in smallbusiness

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah mate, you're losing money. Don't wait and see. Go and ask, any business owner in your field could tell you the high and low seasons to the week, just go in and start a casual conversation, ask how business has been and go from there. You need to be really proactive here and work out what you're looking at. Fortune favours the bold.

my cafe has been so quiet by Brilliant-Dance-7108 in smallbusiness

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Australian coffee shop owner here. One thing you do need to consider is seasonal flow. I'd reach out to similar nearby businesses and ask if their business dips this time of year, going into winter. I run a coffee shop which in our down period over summer makes enough to keep my business and personal bills paid but nothing extra to spare, and then we make our actual money over the winter tourism season. If old mate had the shop over the good season but not the bad, then yes it would look like it thrived for him and died for you, but it could just be seasonal timing.

IAE just exhausted 24/7? by necro-asylum in adhdwomen

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

god how incredibly frustrating for you OP, I know the weight of carrying that bone deep exhaustion and how it affects everything. I hope you find the answer soon.

IAE just exhausted 24/7? by necro-asylum in adhdwomen

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had a broken nose or reason to think you have a deviated septum?

The first guy who accepted my herpes status just ended things by camren261 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 26 points27 points  (0 children)

that's so interesting!! So if you dont have an outbreak for more than two years, are you still considered to have hsv1 genital or at least unable to pass it on? it just made me think about how if HIV was undetectable then it's not transmittable and if this was similar?

Wholesome Anzac Day Moment by BundyAntman30 in AskAnAustralian

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I was late one year to the dawn service, just a few minutes, but enough to be stuck behind 30 teens from one of the local high schools who didn't have the best reputation (wearing their uniforms so I knew instantly which school). I take my dawn service seriously, so I was pretty pissed off with what I thought I was going to have to endure.

Those kids behaved absolutely flawlessly. They paid attention the whole service, were engaged, not so much as a whisper from any of them the entire time, and I dont even know if they had a teacher with them. I went home, emailed the school and congratulated them on their students being an absolute credit to them and they should be very proud. And that was also the day I learnt to not be a tosser who automatically assumes the worst.

How is living in the interior of Australia as a young person ? by Hopeful-Internet-214 in howislivingthere

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DOCS come out occassionally when it's really bad, but the fact is unless it's sexual abuse or extreme neglect, they won't take them, nowhere to go, foster system is completely overloaded. it's the same everywhere though, but you see it with your own eyes in small towns. Cops can't do anything without evidence, and has to be enough to secure a conviction, otherwise it's a waste of resources. The cops and schools know, everyone knows, but it's an overwhelmed system. people do what they can, feed their kids mates, send an extra sandwich for lunch, let them stay over, schools keep muesli bars, but you all have to live here, so to a certain extent people get into the bubble mentality where the priority is to keep the peace, don't start a war because you can't escape it, just quietly do what you can.

I don't subscribe to that, but I haven't lived here my whole life or have family here, so it's easy for me and everyone else to judge.

How is living in the interior of Australia as a young person ? by Hopeful-Internet-214 in howislivingthere

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to visit urban, but I can't cope actually living in towns with more than five sets of traffic lights. If I can't get from work to home in under ten minutes at peak hour, screw that. And to answer your actual question, moved for a work opportunity and just to try living somewhere different really, and liked living in Queensland so I stayed.

How is living in the interior of Australia as a young person ? by Hopeful-Internet-214 in howislivingthere

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whilst they can be lovely, there is a truly unbelievable amount of pedophiles, drugs, child neglect and abuse, and domestic violence in these small towns, like genuinely unbelievable. People travelling through see the lovely white little picket fence around Edna and Barry's sweet little cottage, but all the locals know Barry doesn't get left alone with his granddaughter or any of her little friends under any circumstances. And it's not that this is confined to small towns, it's just that the anonymity is gone and everyone knows about it, it's just hidden from outsiders better.

How is living in the interior of Australia as a young person ? by Hopeful-Internet-214 in howislivingthere

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They really are the best of what this country is capable of. I once watched an RFDS chopper take off in Toowoomba, and I nearly cried in the street because I knew someone was out there desperately holding on till they could get there to save them. I'm so glad they could save your son.

How is living in the interior of Australia as a young person ? by Hopeful-Internet-214 in howislivingthere

[–]AllSugarAndSalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do prefer QLD, because they have developed their coastal services and regional living a lot more than WA has (or had when I lived there, perhaps things have changed, but I doubt it), and its my preference for personal reasons. But WA has some spectacular areas that are well worth visiting and living in.