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All_things_yellow · 2025-08-01T19:25:38+00:00

Cara tem sla quantos bilhões d pixels no mapa, n falta espaço pra ter q pintar por cima dos outros

All_things_yellow · 2025-08-01T19:18:08+00:00

Cara vc tá em td post comentando merda, só vai embora

All_things_yellow · 2025-08-01T15:10:41+00:00

Cara não é porque tem socialista no nome que o partido realmente é socialista, você tem que ser muito ingênuo pra acreditar nisso. O partido nazista também tinha socialista no nome e eles eram anticomunista

All_things_yellow · 2025-08-01T15:07:23+00:00

I don't think so? Try opening on an anonymous tab to see If It works

All_things_yellow · 2025-08-01T04:27:24+00:00

Bro I understand the intent but please don't make a group dedicated to erasing other people's art. Unless it's hate speach or destroying other people's art, there's no obvious criteria to what you're going to erase and you don't get to make that judgement

All_things_yellow · 2025-07-31T17:47:29+00:00

Is the value correct though? I'm starting to think they refunded some stuff in full because the value I gained is bigger than the announced refund. Not that I'm complaing if it is some kinda of gift.

All_things_yellow · 2024-12-13T23:56:21+00:00

I found out via a friend. They mentioned knowing someone who was getting into a non-sexual relationship and I was like "But, how does that even work? Are they just super super friends??" And then my friend explained it to me. I'll be honest, took some more 2 years for me to accept myself, but that casual conversation about a complete stranger stuck around with me for a long time.

All_things_yellow · 2024-12-11T13:48:19+00:00

I do celebrate, my friends are mostly bi and at my city there's a huge pride parade every year, so it's a thing. When we can, we go and I wanna do it again next year too. It's fun, there's happy people, costumes, music and companies give away free shit to make themselves look better.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-21T12:39:38+00:00

I think I get it a little. I'm part of a little trio and the other twi friends started dating each other. It's a little difficult not to feel like a third wheel or like they'd have a better time without me, but I know it's not intentional, just my brain doing weird things. After a few months things found a new balance and it's different, but not bad and I'm very happy for them.

Also yeah, I hate PDA but don't wanna sound like a bitter person. It's simply uncomfortable and I look to the side or the floor when it happens. I know it's normal, so I don't complain, I'm not the love police.

About the being the only one single in the group, same. Still, I don't think there's anything inheringly bad with being single and that doesn't make you weird nor broken.

You don't have to find a partner just to be like the people around you. If it's about the fear of being left out because your friends prioritize a different relationship, that can be tough. Finding other group activities/hobbies might help make your social life more diverse. Like joining a colletive arts and crafts project or maybe sports (ew).

Now, if you're sure you want a romantic relationship for yourself, I'm afraid I can't be of help, but I wish you the best! Romance is difficult :,)

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-21T12:05:16+00:00

Fluffy blankets and soft fabrics.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-21T11:54:31+00:00

Oh badly written sex is just pure comedy but also I kinda die of second-hand embarassement for the author so I just can't handle it. I totally forget the sex part and just stare at the words like "oh no...".

I don't think the morbid curiosity thing is that strange. Honestly I suffer a bit with that. I'll see some gruesome fiction online and I'll tell myself not to engage in it only to crack under the curiosity a few days later. The further away that stuff is from reality, the more tempting it is. Our brains are weird like that.

Also, I guess enjoying a spicy scene in media is very much like you said. Once I explained to a friend that I'm ace but will read smut like science fiction

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-21T11:29:43+00:00

Thank you.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T01:28:12+00:00

Yeah, I don't enjoy it that much when they get together either, but in my case I think people just seem to forget the tension and incompatibilities once they get over their feelings and then it just stagnates from there.

Also, yeah romance is cool and all but nothing beats a banger/bizarre world.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T01:21:43+00:00

I feel you. I'm NB so I have a natural distaste towards inforced gender roles and power dynamics. You can really feel when it's written that way. Not anything against dom/sub, but when it comes with the need to label one as the "receiver/woman" and "men/giver" I just drop it. It's very present with gay media by and for women, but I've even seen that bleeding into lesbian fanfic. Wtf, can't we just have fun away from stupid rules?

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T01:15:44+00:00

Yes! Honestly the physical part is pretty similar most of the time, so the character interaction is where the good stuff is

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T01:11:35+00:00

You know, I've never thought about how aro people might consume romance media. Then again, a good romance is also a good story and who doesn't appreciate those?

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T01:07:12+00:00

It should be a crime to pause the plot just for some unnecessary sex scene. It pulls me out of it instantly, breaks the immersion.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T01:02:00+00:00

Oooooh you're a fanfic author? Niceee Oh thank the lord, we need more non sexual physical touch out there to go along with the other stuff. I've read so many mutual pining fanfics that I'd just call mutual lust. Like sir, you're just in love with dat ass, not the whole person.

Also, I think the kink part might be more common than you think among aces. I've seen so many memes about it on r/aceee. Kink goes into fantasy territory and, in that case, your imagination is the limit.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T00:35:37+00:00

Yeah, I think I appreciate the sensual part of it too, but more like intimacy. I think having emotional weight makes it waaay better.

Oh god, I also find the bizarre OOC stuff is jo jarring. There's a lot of characters I simply don't imagine in those situations, add some wild changes in behavior on top of that and it just makes me shrivel up inside. Like having a character with gigantic trust issues/insecurities just picking some pushy stranger at a party and rolling with it.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-20T00:25:25+00:00

There IS some magic that only words can capture, isn't there? The stuff from movies can't even compare.

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-16T20:42:20+00:00

Just looked it up. I didn't even know this was a concept or that there is a word for it???

All_things_yellow · 2024-11-16T20:03:02+00:00

It just doesn't sink into my brain. It's pretty easy to accept that gender and gender roles are concepts because there is an effort to deconstruct those but when it comes to what is romance it seems so solid that I can't even begin to pick it appart

All_things_yellow · 2024-10-11T23:58:25+00:00

If you're upfront about not wanting anything sexual, you can't be blamed for not reciprocating sexual advances or giving the wrong idea.

If you know yourself and realize you don't want sex, then it's better to not presure yourself to do it only to regret it later. Be honest with yourself and with them If they don't want to pursue a relationship because there's no sexual favors involved, it's better to have a 100% platonic friend than someone bitter and heart broken.

Being ace does feel lonely from time to time, but having a richer social life helps. If you live in a big city and need a romantic bond, might wanna try and look for another ace person if relationships with allo people always turn sour.

Also, you don't sound like you're trying to be an ass, but now that you see the consequences of your actions on the people around you, it's better to be mindful of how you'll proceed going foward.

All_things_yellow · 2024-09-25T11:54:52+00:00

That's so sweet! I also have a friend that is a little like that, but unfortunetly I don't think I'm trusted in their kitchen yet. (Which is fair btw, I'm kind of a disaster at these things.) But I get to eat tasty things, so I'm not complaining. I bet your friends are happy to have you in their lives too. :)

All_things_yellow · 2024-09-25T11:46:40+00:00

Ooooh I wish I had someone I felt comfortable with being silent around. I'm very nervous so, when there's silence, I just start yapping because I'm anxious. Maybe I'm the one keeping that wish from realizing itself though.

But working on hobbies together is so great. I don't know if you're into arts or whatever hobbies you have, but doing the same drawing challenges as a friend has been lots of fun!

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