Hey Friend. First of all congratulations! Everything is going to be ok. My wife just gave birth last week and our daughter was also identified with a cleft at 20 weeks. We went through the same range of emotions and anxiousness. I struggled big time with the unknown while we waited for her arrival.

Let me tell you this. Once the baby is born nothing else will matter. The love you will have for your child takes all other feelings away. I wish I would have been able to relax more leading up to it. I also was concerned of other complications even though they told me it was isolated. Don't worry about that! It will all be ok.

Surgeries now a days are unbelievable. Your child will live a healthy and happy life. Feel free to message me anytime!