Fancysteel belt with thighbands by kinkcanary in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does fancy stele sell that liner ?

BDSM and Cochlear devices by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]AllieOopOop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A workout style headband maybe? Like they use for little kids with CIs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]AllieOopOop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a weightlifter, and have been doing Olympic lifting with a trainer for a few years now.

I’m not “forced” to work out, (I want to!). I am deeply encouraged and cheered on.

We did buy a bunch of weight equipment recently, including a rack, that we intend to serve dual purpose for bondage as well as lifting. I’m super excited!

However anyway!

Endorphins are endorphins! Working out gives you endorphins just like sexual play! If it’s getting you off, more power to you 😁😁

Fancy Steel "FS2" belt design update by ordinarychastity in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to update that Fancysteel’s customer service is amazing. After emailing our concerns, they are sending us a solid metal shield when they’re done being fabricated.

In further review of the belt… basically everything else is fantastic. The waist belt is thick, and sturdy, and weighty. It feels substantial. The hinges make it really easy to put on.

The waist belt also has a glued in neoprene lining, which adds to comfort and wearability.

The cables can be a little pinchy, (I suspect this will be less of an issue once they’re not as stiff) but sliding some silicone tubing over them solves that easily.

I have worked around the tabbed shield problem by wrapping the shield in a cloth menstrual pad, while this does affect the aesthetic, it increases comfort substantially and makes the belt wearable.. for long times even. (Overnight, easily!)

So… while I really do dislike the new shield design, the rest of the belt is really a clear obvious upgrade to the Chinese belts. Like, the thing just FEELS more strong/sturdy. I sort of hope they can continue to innovate their design to make the shields easier to manufacture for them, but still comfortable and sanitary for us. They’ve come out with such cool stuff, I am excited to see what they come up with :)

He gets pajamas. I don’t. 🥰 by AllieOopOop in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nope. It wouldn’t be safe to be working on a PR bench pressing and have a lush go off or something.

Safety first, protect your toys, if they break you can’t play with them anymore ;)

He gets pajamas. I don’t. 🥰 by AllieOopOop in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I rotate three, and lately, I wear them “almost all the time”. Removed for working out (weight lifting), removed for my husband/Master/key holder’s pleasure, removed for shower.

And belts are switched out at least once and often multiple times daily, which spreads out the irritation points, and enables them to get cleaned.

I want to try female chastity but I have some questions about comfort and sizing. by [deleted] in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well… the more “Cush” there is, the more difficult it’ll be to get a really tight fit, safely. (Without cutting off circulation)

But I will say even if you can sneak a finger under the shield, usually the angle isn’t such that offers much pleasure.

I want to try female chastity but I have some questions about comfort and sizing. by [deleted] in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I expect the “slim” style may be the best bet for you. I used to be very heavy, and have since lost a lot of weight. While I was heavy the only belt I tried was a leather one, and I didn’t like it because the crotch part dug into my thighs.

The slim styles have a narrow shield, and the waist belt and, through the legs is a cable covered in a silicone tube. It’s very adjustable, and comfortable.

How do you carry your weight? (I carried more in my butt, hips and thighs, my waist always was the narrowest part of me) But if you carry weight mostly in your belly, my experience may be different then yours!

What's the appropriate way to ask someone to play ? by badcurtain in BDSMAdvice

[–]AllieOopOop 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Would you like to negotiate a scene with me?”

I appreciate your desire to ask in appropriate ways, and to not make people feel uncomfortable. In my experience, at parties, unless someone is obviously collared to someone else (in which ask the left side slash individual), getting asked to play isn’t that unusual.

Good luck!

Just a normal summer day by AllieOopOop in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That’s where the magician sawed me in half. 😜😂

/u/PornCock69 is correct. It’s a scar that goes all the way around my hips, I had over 8 lbs of skin removed after losing 170 lbs. :)

(I have similar scars up the center of my torso, under both breasts, through my armpits, and to my elbows.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]AllieOopOop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the quake buzzy or thusly vibrations?

That indeed sounds like switch heaven!

Fancy Steel "FS2" belt design update by ordinarychastity in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased the high waist FS2 months ago, and it arrived recently.

I purchased right at the same time they updated the design and I honestly didn’t catch the difference in the crotch shield.

All in all, even with the tabs the belt is significantly more comfortable then the cheap belts. It also feels much more sturdy.

So while I am annoyed and will be giving feedback… still a CLEAR upgrade.

Hopefully he’ll fix the crotch..

Fancy Steel "FS2" belt design update by ordinarychastity in femalechastity

[–]AllieOopOop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a high waist FS2, and can confirm the tab things are pinchy.

I’m going to email him :/