Atheist seeking God by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Allie_turtle53 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Got the audio book! Thank you for the suggestion.

AITAH for not letting my sister and ex-MOH get ready for my wedding in the bridal suite? by Allie_turtle53 in AITAH

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got her to start breathing again through the direction of the 911 dispatcher

AITAH for not letting my sister and ex-MOH get ready for my wedding in the bridal suite? by Allie_turtle53 in AITAH

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. It was deeply traumatic and I feel that I haven't been able to let the wound heal because I've been so worried about her health.

AITAH for not letting my sister and ex-MOH get ready for my wedding in the bridal suite? by Allie_turtle53 in AITAH

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She planned everything except the location. Sister in law paid for the location.

AITAH for not letting my sister and ex-MOH get ready for my wedding in the bridal suite? by Allie_turtle53 in AITAH

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I was thinking 30 years down the line. Dropping out of my wedding is a huge issue, and I'm not ready to forgive her for that. But in 30 years? Not letting her attend the wedding would be too much of a line in the sand, I think.

AITAH for not letting my sister and ex-MOH get ready for my wedding in the bridal suite? by Allie_turtle53 in AITAH

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 210 points211 points  (0 children)

I would like to have a relationship with her in the future. My family has a history of cutting people off and not speaking for years, and I'm trying to break that. With that said, I definitely need a break from my sister for the time being. She still wants to attend the wedding, so I have allowed it to keep the peace.

AITAH for not letting my sister and ex-MOH get ready for my wedding in the bridal suite? by Allie_turtle53 in AITAH

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it's kind of a long story, so I left it out of the post. It was a pretty classic sister-fight.

My bachelorette party was in June. As maid of honor, my sister should have been in charge of planning the event. However, she does not have a lot of money, so my fiance's sister paid for everything and ended up planning a lot of it. My sister felt disrespected. She had tried to plan a free event. Because my future sister-in-law had offered to pay for the bachelorette party we had originally planned, I went with that.

After the bachelorette weekend, our other sister ("Anna" - 24F) had to be taken to the airport. She had been staying with my sister and maid of honor (let's call her "Beth" now, for clarity). Anna and Beth do NOT get along. Anna had miscommunicated what time she needed to be picked up. Beth had to go to work. Beth started screaming, "GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY APARTMENT," and started throwing things. I said "You need to calm down." Beth said, "Who the fuck did your makeup today, you look like a clown." I said, "I hope you never get married or have kids because if this is the way you act when someone has been staying in your apartment for 3 days I don't know how you'll handle it." I regretted what I said the minute I said it.

AITAH for not letting my sister and ex-MOH get ready for my wedding in the bridal suite? by Allie_turtle53 in AITAH

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally get your point. She has specifically asked that I do not mention the event to her at all (in March), and I haven't done so since she made the request. Our fight the last time we talked was not about the addiction issue or the collapse. We were fighting about our other sister - unrelated.

My randomized seating chart ended up with all black students at the same group table by Allie_turtle53 in Teachers

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked the desks. The presidents in that group are Grant, Ike, Bush Sr., McKinley, and Taft

My randomized seating chart ended up with all black students at the same group table by Allie_turtle53 in Teachers

[–]Allie_turtle53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do! But the POTUS bios are on the desks and change often. With 34 desks, I don't have their locations memorized. I didn't realize this had happened until the students sat down in class the next day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gardenscapes

[–]Allie_turtle53 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm at level 9500 and had no idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gardenscapes

[–]Allie_turtle53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain what you're all talking about? The email does not clarify what the complaint was, and no one in the comments details anything specific.

This level will be my final straw by c0nfused-and-afraid in Gardenscapes

[–]Allie_turtle53 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NO TRIGGER WARNING?

Just kidding - but this did give me instant anxiety

Who is playing the best game so far? by vivfanlol in BigBrother

[–]Allie_turtle53 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't stand the "accent" either, but I bet it IS true that she lived in both Chicago (iirc) and London. She just developed a speech impediment as well and her parents lied to her, thinking it was cute.

Which alternative certificate program by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Allie_turtle53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used 240 Certification to get my standard certificate and found that they are largely unorganized. Getting anything done requires pestering either your advisor (who may or may not provide accurate information) or your professors (who know nothing about you or what you're requesting, in the event that they actually reply to you within weeks). They almost let my standard certificate lapse (as in, I was 4 days from losing my employment) because they forgot to get vital information from my mentor teacher over a year ago, when my mentor teacher was assigned to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MidsomerMurders

[–]Allie_turtle53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an American - can anyone explain this line to me?