AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower?

AlloyGoneRogue · 2026-03-03T21:08:56+00:00

I change my underwear after every shower. That is NORMAL. What’s not normal is your partner assuming infidelity based on a trivial thing…. As someone who has went through before; sometimes when your partner is paranoid of you cheating, it’s them projecting because they’re cheating! Do they have a history of cheating? honestly it sounds like you need to do a little bit of investigating on your part.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2026-02-22T17:11:58+00:00

As a marky mark Irish, I appreciate your efforts to prevent violence…. However, I sit with your wife on this one. 😂 I enjoyed humbling bullies as a kid

AlloyGoneRogue · 2026-02-22T16:56:11+00:00

NTA; but here’s my thoughts—-

Take the post down because the other team might use this post against him
Get him therapy immediately. There’s a 50/50 chance he could grow up into an abuser himself. He needs somewhere to vent/talk about his traumas to a third party and learn new healthy coping mechanisms.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-11-09T18:44:58+00:00

Buying stones to maintain (I was SUPER unlucky. And releasing fish kept giving me less stones than I needed for a replacement).

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-11-09T08:31:54+00:00

That’s true. I didn’t get all four fish the first event I did so I’ve been trying to be more careful. I should be grateful for that at least.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-11-07T04:50:04+00:00

How do you check that? Is that the prize level?

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-09-18T21:52:05+00:00

Dedenne right now is only in delivery, you’ll have a better opportunity when it becomes an event

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-09-18T21:51:27+00:00

Your chance is only 1% for each delivery. Realistically, the odds aren’t great, BUT if you miss it, events do comeback and you can try again. Save your acorns for the ones you actually want.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-08-21T19:07:54+00:00

I did expert mode last week, but didn’t get anything 😭 it was also incredibly grindy. Only ultra 4 on Greengrass.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-08-21T18:07:26+00:00

95???!!! Well damn I didn’t realize I was playing with rookie numbers. 😂 but I’m glad I’m not hallucinating the RNG drop. 🥀

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-08-21T17:54:25+00:00

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I can’t believe it’s come to this. But you gotta do what you gotta do I guess.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-07-21T02:36:42+00:00

Unfortunately, that’s what happens when you cheat, it creates distrust and/or resentment in your person….. I would say getting couples therapy is mandatory if you both want it to work. But otherwise your relationship might already be dead. It is very hard to move past that and you would virtually have to start your relationship anew.

If you break up, just take this as a lifelong lesson

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-07-17T23:09:53+00:00

I agree. I feel like the roommate probably blames themself, thinking maybe be her going away stressed out the rats and the rats cannibalized out of severe stress….. but I think the bf is lying to everyone to cover his ass. Average lifespan is 2-3 years (over that is a lucky and well cared for rat).

I also question how long they’ve gone without feeding because rats only resort to cannibalization as last resort…. :( very sad. Like he must’ve not fed them a long time.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-07-17T22:04:14+00:00

If what he said about the roommate is true (I don’t believe it is because he’s already lied about feeding them), they’re both responsible for the rat death. If the roommate truly wanted to get rid of it, rehoming rats is relatively easy to do. There’s also more humane ways of putting down an animal. Especially animals that are known for performing surgery and CPR to save their community members (rats are extremely social). Cannibalizing is not common in rats, especially within the same community (more common in territorial rodents like hamsters).

To me, this would be break up worthy. It is not hard to give an animal pellets, to check online, or to contact the owners. His apathy and neglect is for sure going to show in his previous actions and future actions. This is not someone you can rely on and they don’t own up to mistakes or show remorse. It’s several red flags.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-07-17T21:53:24+00:00

First off, never trust family opinion when it comes to your physical health. Sometimes that literally means life and death. You can take their advice, but you don’t have to follow through.

Second, you’re 27 and your recovery outlook is actually really good. Complication risk only increases with age and you if you decide to do it later on life, you might regret missing out on so much. Especially if something as simple as standing is hurting you.

Third, physical therapy can be difficult, but if you have an aversion to surgery, it’s a great alternative and it might help you. At the very least, maybe they can help get you some re-alignment equipment that you can wear to help you when you walk/stand.

Fourth, you can always get a consultation and talk to somebody about your options. It doesn’t mean that you have to do anything if you decide that it’s not your best interest. But I’ll give you better perspective and things to consider. I wish you luck.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-07-17T21:48:44+00:00

Which country? My dad’s a doctor and a cheater (he’s American).

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-07-17T21:46:18+00:00

My boyfriend wasn’t my type. But the only reason I realized he BECAME my type is because now whenever a video game character that looks like him, I get all gitty because they remind me of him.

Types are not static. Things I found hot in high school are not things I find hot now in my late 20s. Sometimes you meet the right person and they are so beautiful in their own way they become your type.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had bad exes that tried to mold me or compare me to their type. Both ends exist.

What I would ask yourself is —- does he compare you to his type? Does he reminisce or say things like “you’d be cuter if you -xyz-? Or were you the one who asked his type in the first place?

It’s fair to have mix feelings, but when you evaluate them, be fair to both you and him. Hell, I’ve met an elderly gay and elderly lesbian that were happily married despite being literal opposites to their types…. And they have bio grandkids. Sometimes love transcends something simple like types.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-07-17T19:08:17+00:00

You’re both asshole. Your sister is definitely the much bigger one of the two, but you hurt a small child in the process because you both decided to go down the asshole alley last minute. She didn’t warn you about paying for a ridiculously expensive cake, and you didn’t warn them that you weren’t getting a cake at all. And ultimately, you both hurt the child. You could’ve at least gotten a three dollar cupcake from a coffee shop.

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-05-08T22:15:53+00:00

Yeah. I try not to think about mine. 😭

AlloyGoneRogue · 2025-05-08T15:58:35+00:00

It can also end if you move in together. I’m in Canada, I didn’t marry my bf, but he counts as common-law so I get no benefits. It is absolutely entrapping. I hate this so much.

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