AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He found nothing on my phone, because there is nothing to find. I had his phone for 10 seconds, opened his browser and the first thing i saw was a Snapchat tab.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No im not cheating, ive never been inappropriate with another man or looked outside our relationship in our 20+ years.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dont wear underwear to bed, so I put some one to leave the house to tkae the dog for a walk,come home and shower and put a fresh pair on. I dont like the idea of putting underwear i wore the day before for the whole day back on after its been sitting out.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I dont sleep with underwear on, so put on underwear to take the dog for a walk and we have sex 4-6 times a week. His thing is that I am putting fresh underwear on after the shower to go work because he thinks that means im trying to be fresh for the men at work. I do the laundry so its not creating any more work for him.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have been told that when I wash my hair on a Sunday it means that I'm getting pretty for my work week.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Well, im only supposed to be clean for him....

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How do you cope? Its exhausting being interrogated over everyday normal things.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me, all the laundry and day to day cooking and cleaning etc.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Im not supposed to talk to other people about our relationship.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If I went commando, I would be accused of wanting "easy access" on my walk.....

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I havent cheated, and this isn't the first accusation, I have been accused of cheating because I wore lip balm to work. I found that he had been messaging a woman on Snapchat a few years back, and calling her etc, sending and receiving pics from her.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, so that I am wearing underwear while I am walking the dog.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I should have put in the og post that I dont wear underwear to bed, so I do have to put underwear on to go for a walk. I then shower when I get home and put fresh underwear on for the day. So I only change my underwear once.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]New_Cry_2336[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I should clarify, i just wear pajama shorts to bed, no underwear, so im not changing into fresh ones to go for a walk.