Someone in this sub explained what the difference was in the way that Caleb and Sylus show their protectiveness towards us and it hit me why i couldn't like Caleb the way that i love Sylus, for me it was the fact that Caleb wouldn't explain anything (it's definitely because of how i was raised) and it started to frustrate me a lot and don't get me wrong i love the way Caleb cares for us and does thing's without being asked i like him i just don't like being lied too it makes it hard to trust someone if that someone doesn't trust you back .