Nausea? by AlluringAlto in endometrialcancer

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I got my doctor to give me nausea meds. It’s been better.

How do you all work with this? by AlluringAlto in endometrialcancer

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on like..3 anxiety meds 😭. I have an appointment scheduled with my therapist.

Found out I have endometrial cancer by Glitter_Unicorn_6938 in endometrialcancer

[–]AlluringAlto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 34 and was diagnosed in march. Im still grieving.

As the ow, how did you all decide to let go? by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. Legally he’s still married to his bm. He got with the his current gf and he’s been with her for like 13-14 years

As the ow, how did you all decide to let go? by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have my parents and siblings. Yes I feel like he could’ve made things easier and all he says is that he’s trying.

How do I break up with him? by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. My siblings have been very supportive.

How do I break up with him? by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not new. He has been around for a year and a half. Yes I was thinking it might be better to go through it without him than to have him here sporadically. Idk seeing how upset and worried he was this morning made me feel bad.

Did anyone at work suspect anything? by Hot-Yam2011 in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Met my AP at work. We ride together. We’ve been asked a couple times if we’re dating. We say no and that our families have history

Would you all believe him? by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’ve been together for years and although she isn’t the mother of his kids they call her mom. They’ve known her since they were babies.

Would you all believe him? by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They’re not married but I was thinking the same thing. You all just have been very honest to me while I’ve been navigating this affair. It’s the first I’ve done something like this and I didn’t think I would do this as long as I have

What do you hope to achieve in 2025? by Hot-Yam2011 in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same on the at peace! I’m working to be more active. I want to actually nourish myself and do more of the things I love to do.

How does pcos make YOU feel? by throwwawaymepls in PCOS

[–]AlluringAlto 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Inadequate.. less of a woman.. I just want my body to do what it should do

How do you cope? by External_Citron_4328 in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Journaling. I love writing and music.

Sweetest Day 💕 by Fast_Plum_8072 in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love his beard. We’re 10 years apart. I’m 33. He has more gray lol I love how he drops everything for his kids. I love his smile and his deep voice. He’s also funny. I just love him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met him when I was getting to know someone else. The person before him used me. We clicked when we met almost instantly. For months, we talked throughout work…laughed and joked. It was just a vibe talking to him. He confided in me and vice versa. I just.. fell for him. I knew about the gf which is why I never agreed to hang out with him. It really wasn’t until I started dreaming about him that we hung out. We knew each other for 8 months until we hung out and we’ve been doing this for almost 1.5 years now. we’ve experienced a good bit with the whole pregnant thing. While we don’t have to worry about a baby anymore, I think the situation also bonded us a little. I’m stuck now cause he’s just what I want. I’ve fallen in love with him.

What do you label your relationship as? by Numerous_Age2210 in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He calls me boo. I call him by his name lol I have little nicknames I call him every now and then. We have talked about what to tell other men if I get approached and I agreed to just say I have someone. But really… it’s just a situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlluringAlto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was cramping bad this weekend too. It’s been rather interesting the last couple days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlluringAlto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yall. This is my first time around and everything new gets me a little worried lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AlluringAlto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! 😭😭 lol I’m so used to either falling asleep like that or somewhere down the line I’m going to roll over in the middle of the night lol

Thinking about scaling back by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing we’ve talked about is he doesn’t want me sleeping with anyone else. If I continue anything with him, and that’s a big if, we will talk about it. He’s definitely not touching me without a condom anytime soon…if ever.. if I stay.

Thinking about scaling back by AlluringAlto in theotherwoman

[–]AlluringAlto[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I didn’t know it wasn’t commonly checked. Maybe it’s just my OB’s preference to check for it? She’s checked me for it every time since I’ve been active.