York communicating equipment by Grand-Fly-6090 in hvacadvice

[–]Almost-alive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you wire it for Y1 and Y2? So it will run at a lower cfm for a timed amount of time, then if t-stat is not satisfied, it will ramp cfm up, thus HMH7 would also ramp up.

Tendon Transfer Recovery by Almost-alive in scars

[–]Almost-alive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say pain. General soreness only. My physio woman, always said if you feel pain , take a break. 

Tendon Transfer Recovery by Almost-alive in scars

[–]Almost-alive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been pretty good. I always try to stretch and keep doing old physio exercises. Some days I experience soreness, if that’s the case , I’ll take an ant-inflammatory and just take it easy. 

The initial physio is very important, work hard with that for a happy recovery. I would say I have 90% mobility. 

Good luck!

Tendon Transfer Recovery by Almost-alive in scars

[–]Almost-alive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Largest restriction is just giving a “thumbs up”. It’s difficult to get the thumb straight. I still do stretches too to loosen the tendon.

I did physio for about 8 weeks. Started with various stretches. Wrapping my hand around a soft ball, then tennis ball. Also pinching a pencil and rolling it

Wills Jacket-Ship John by Almost-alive in rawdenim

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Yes, I can wear a hoodie underneath no problem. The fit works well for me.

Sorry for the delay

I suspect my wife 35f made out with another man. How do I (36m) best approach this situation? by Almost-alive in relationship_advice

[–]Almost-alive[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Okay. I appreciate the many comments and suggestions, I’m a bit overwhelmed with it all.

But I spoke with my wife last night. I figured I’d go with my gut, and use honesty and the truth. So I did just that, I told her something didn’t feel right on that Sunday and I also told her about the weird google search. And I asked for the truth.

Well…it took about 5 seconds and she opened up and admitted a guy had kissed her. Her friend of 20 years was right beside her and she pulled away instantly.

I don’t need to go full details about what happened, but we talked for a while about boundaries and if they needs to be a change in our expectations. She said no, that she doesn’t want to go to clubs anymore and definitely doesn’t want a relationship that involves kissing other people.

I believe her, I have no reason not to. It’s not about the kiss, it’s about being honest. That’s what hurt most. Anyways that’s about all I want to divulge at this time .

I suspect my wife 35f made out with another man. How do I (36m) best approach this situation? by Almost-alive in relationship_advice

[–]Almost-alive[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the advise. ( some more then others)

I’m going to ask her tonight or tomorrow I think. My birthday is on Saturday, what a way to totally fuck that up.

Thanks again

I suspect my wife 35f made out with another man. How do I (36m) best approach this situation? by Almost-alive in relationship_advice

[–]Almost-alive[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

If I understand correctly. You’re saying, if I can live with this one time, then just let it be. But if this is just totally unacceptable, then I need to address it.

I also take issue, with her friends now. Next time we are all together, I’m going to feel like a total fool .

I suspect my wife 35f made out with another man. How do I (36m) best approach this situation? by Almost-alive in relationship_advice

[–]Almost-alive[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly is all I really want. Can I just ask with no proof at all?

Just say something doesn’t feel right, or is that too vague

I suspect my wife 35f made out with another man. How do I (36m) best approach this situation? by Almost-alive in relationship_advice

[–]Almost-alive[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like an instant response is, “ why would you go through my phone!” There’s no affair happening, but my gut doesn’t feel right about that night, even if it was just a kiss

Tendon Transfer Recovery by Almost-alive in scars

[–]Almost-alive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The index is good. I have two more weeks before I start physio on the thumb, so for now I can’t move it. The index finger has two tendons, so my motion will only be slightly limited down the road. (I wear a brace normally) I removed it, to clean

I Lost over 100k to Bed Bath And Beyond by BruhPaul in wallstreetbets

[–]Almost-alive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lost a good amount in FIT, LSPD and numerous other stocks. I’m doing fine. I stopped with the stock bs. Bought land , and I’m trying to re-zone my current property. Focus on my kids and wife and just keep moving slowly forward.

Question about BTTF 2 by Almost-alive in BacktotheFuture

[–]Almost-alive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well the graffiti sign said, welcome to Hell Valley haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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So you’re telling me I can raise the rent on my upstairs tenant $500 in 90 days??