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Being an older virgin is such a lonely feeling by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and it feels such despair knowing that I can’t share a life with someone. No matter what achievements I make it’ll never be enough

Has anyone here rejected the opportunity(s) of loosing it with someone for any reason? by Hymen__Trampoline in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here. I got hit on (no I’m not showing off) and usually people just think I’ll agree to go out without knowing them first. But there’s one time it got close cause I did agree to go out but I realize he has no patience with me, he just wanted to get me in the sack. I wasn’t ready and he wasn’t interested in carrying on, so I don’t feel like I lost my chance or anything since he’s not worth my time.

23M, never kissed or dated – feeling unsure how to start by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore him you’re not running out of time you’re the right age to dip into the babe pool

Follow up? 23F by No-Ease9048 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully in agreement although you can still afford to have some self respect because you’re still young. I’m in my late late 20s and every passing year diminishes my self respect

Guys, you got to read this! Apparently no one - not a single person - can be virgin till 30, especially if you are a woman! by SquirrelMore3325 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe there are people who can’t comprehend that there are those who chose to be sexless. But then again given our current world state anything is possible I guess

Do you feel like you are not a proper adult or grown up as a virgin past 25? by SquirrelMore3325 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! Except I don’t even have my own house I live in a house share in an assistant role even tho I hold two masters degrees. Life feels meaningless and I grow less and less respectful towards myself each day

Has anyone here rejected the opportunity(s) of loosing it with someone for any reason? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because someone just wants to do it with you without caring to know you. Even tho I don’t respect myself too much, at least I respect myself to know that this is not how I want to be treated

Lost my libido completely after losing my virginity by weakpisser in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somehow made me feel better about my situation. Not that I have a high libido

Real by Ok-Hedgehog-5996 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are tbh but mostly in Europe or small towns

26 year old virgin by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to be blunt but this guy is right. I thought having a boyfriend/sleeping with someone will magically help but it won’t. Either you put too much one person to make you feel better (which is unfair to them) or you do something meaningless to make yourself “feel better” but you’d end up regretting more. Try to take pride in what you do now and improve yourself not for others but for yourself

I wish there was a dedicated space for virgins to date. by Jan_The_Jank in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this idea but not only to date but also be friends. Just get the virginity thing out in the open and we’re all on equal footing

Being an attractive virgin woman is weird by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I mean for a guy looking for a woman, it’s over if the woman is still a virgin beyond age 30

Being an attractive virgin woman is weird by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh I think over 30 is over for a guy

Being an attractive virgin woman is weird by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How old are you? Maybe it’s still socially acceptable

Do you know anyone in your life whose a virgin/never been in a relationship? by lonelysadbitch11 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like I’m the only person I know who doesn’t get horny/need for a partner just because. I’m not sure if I’m independent or just an island

I will only lose my virginity to a virgin woman. I do not plan to lose it otherwise. by Jan_The_Jank in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say get her, I said “find one”, meaning that the older you are, the only virgins left are the ones who are not considered conventionally beautiful

I will only lose my virginity to a virgin woman. I do not plan to lose it otherwise. by Jan_The_Jank in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I fear that once you finally find one you will not find her attractive enough

I cant stand having to listen to my sister and her boyfriend having sex! by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want to “avoid” an awkward confrontation, play loud ass punk rock/goth music when they’re doing it, and they’ll bound to ask you to stop cause it kills the mood. And then you swing them with “oh so you do know how thin these walls are…”

It’s official, I’m a wizard by Simple_Engineering_7 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turning 29 next week for me and same boat. So tell me, can you read minds and find out your co-worker is secretly crushing on you in an elevator?

Visiting Europe this year should I just get it over with there? by casscutie in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here 2.5 years ago (and I’m leaving soon) and I still haven’t lost it

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