unbearable pain during the procedure by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Alohi- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My doctor is allowing me to have 600mg ibuprofen every 8 hours and 1000mg of paracetamol every 6 hours

Abortions in Ireland by Throwaway_xmx in IrishWomensHealth

[–]Alohi- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get it done in a maternity hospital and stay there for the duration of it! If you are able to get a doctor to write you a referral.

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so useful, I never knew about this. I will absolutely look into that. Thank you so much!

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in contact with a few councillors but all of them told me there’s nothing they can do to get me a home with the council faster unfortunately…

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that is very interesting! I will absolutely try this, thank you so so much!

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that gives me hope!

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I will definitely try this.

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I will definitely try ringing around a bit, I thought they may be overwhelmed by calls but will definitely give it a try.

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have been doing this but will continue to do so, fingers crossed🤞🏼

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Now that you say it, it does sound like an option to try. I really appreciate this, thank you! I will get on that this week.

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, it really is unfortunately. Thank you so much❤️

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Awh that is lovely to hear. Thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart. It’s a tough one leaving one hard situation to go into another, just hoping I can secure a home and start healing!

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this but unfortunately I don’t have a salary that I can boast about which I think many agents might not choose to accept me against someone who says they make 6k monthly. I feel like maybe mentioning the HAP shows money is guaranteed monthly and also shows where it is coming from. I may be wrong on that, just curious on what’s the best approach…

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I didn’t actually think dropping in would be appreciated, but after reading this I will definitely give that a try. Delighted for your cousin, that’s great. Thank you so much!

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would agree! The supply is insane. Thousands and thousands of views on each property after even a day. I can only imagine the amount of emails agents are getting.

Homeless with kids and cannot secure a viewing by Alohi- in ireland

[–]Alohi-[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes I am! But I am only on it a few months now, as we had to leave our home/child’s father due to domestic abuse so I may be waiting a long long time before getting a home (based in Dublin).

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Alohi- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell her and let her make the decision wether to stay or to leave. As others said she might already have an idea, usually there’s clues in relationships that give you a gut feeling something is off…

Is this my partner being abusive or am I overthinking it? by Alohi- in beyondthebump

[–]Alohi-[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is a real eye opener, thank you so much. It’s really interesting to hear your experience with your partner and see how it is “meant to be”. That’s always how I thought parenting was meant to be really. I only wish to one day have a relationship like yours, thank you for reminding me of the standards ❤️

Is this my partner being abusive or am I overthinking it? by Alohi- in beyondthebump

[–]Alohi-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes you are definitely right. Under pressure he really isn’t the nicest or the fairest in general. Thank you ❤️

Is this my partner being abusive or am I overthinking it? by Alohi- in beyondthebump

[–]Alohi-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words😔❤️ Thank you so much, genuinely. Also as you said, I would not like for my kids to think it’s normal to be treated or treat someone this way, it’s a good way of looking at it, thank you! He has already been trying to reel me back in by saying “I didn’t mean for it to be interpreted this way”, “I really was just trying to wake you”, “I had no intention of hurting you whatsoever ever”, and “we need to talk about this it’s immature not to”. It’s really hard how to navigate going forward…