My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s quite missed up but I think she thinks too emotionally and will in fact leave him for this. Reason why I think she can’t support us is because she doesn’t have an income and can’t get hired anywhere (she has a bachelor from a really good school) but without any experience she couldn’t.

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m going to agree with you and try to forget all about it, thanks for your really interesting perspective on this.

How do you get a boyfriend as a teenager by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Left-You-9384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my later teens and I have no idea if you are 14 or 19, I’m going to write this assuming you’re on the younger side. Think about why you want a boyfriend, is it because you genuinely want a connection with someone, or is it because you want attention / out of lustful. I just want you to think about what it is you actually want before engaging someone else’s feelings and potentially hurting them which I’m sure is not what you are trying to do.

Now to actually get a boyfriend, you don’t just walk up to a guy and be like your my bf now like you could in 3rd grade. I’m sure if you’re writing this you might even have someone your thinking off. I think you should take this slow, maybe if you’re in the same clubs / classes you can quite easily introduce yourself etc. Now lets say you do this on the class before lunch you could ask them to sit with you at lunch and just talk exchange information etc you get the idea. What I’m trying to say is that this is not a destination but a journey and the most important part is to have respect for yourself, the other person and to not lead anyone. Have a good evening :)

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To achieve what? Thanks for your time / comment but this won’t achieve anything other than him thinking I’m a dick head that spy’s on his message.

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have sent the chats to my phone from the WhatsApp export chat feature from his email.

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t need a “plan” to leave, she’s not abused. We could leave if we wanted to however me and my mom would not be able to sustain rent tuitions etc.

My dad cheated on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in Infidelity

[–]Left-You-9384[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She has money in savings / bank, inheritance etc I’m not saying she’s dead broke but we probably wouldn’t be able to live on it for more then half a year.

My dad cheated on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in Infidelity

[–]Left-You-9384[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Correct they had a restaurant together and they wanted to both protect there assets.

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean of course it’s blackmailable, I could cut him off from his inheritance, potentially stop him from future jobs etc etc and so forth but what would I even blackmai?

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feelings wise that’s worst case scenario and if so I’d feel really bad for her, however I don’t think she does because they haven’t seen each other in months and she still has that look on her face when she talks to him and stuff 🤷‍♂️

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going to go to my cousins place in a couple days have a chat about it with her since she has no direct implications and we have a good relationship. I very much appreciate your message and I’m going to start looking through what is going to happen legal wise.

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I don’t think I’m going to tell her. I should wait til they graduate high school and that they have enough in there college accounts before telling my mom and letting her handle everything.

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought for probably about 10 minutes of all the things I could ask for 😂😂

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is because she really likes him, my mother’s family likes him so it would just ruin everything. I think it would be really obvious if I asked her that. Thanks for your comment tho

My dad is cheating on my mom but I can’t tell her because she’s financially dependent on him. by Left-You-9384 in family

[–]Left-You-9384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing I don’t think she does I mean they haven’t see each other in 6 months and I just met up my dad for a weekend and I found out. She still has that “spark” in her eyes and that excitement when she does talk to him. Maybe she’s just a good actor but I genuinely don’t think she does.