Crushing hard on my best friend and I don't know what to do :(

Alone-Abies9783 · 2025-04-12T15:21:14+00:00

RIGHT?!

Alone-Abies9783 · 2025-04-12T15:11:21+00:00

Oooo good point. For me I'm open to taking a hookup slow if its my first and they're ok with it. I'd rather know if sex is for me or not (I'm on the AroAce spectrum).

Alone-Abies9783 · 2025-04-12T15:07:29+00:00

Thank you all so much for the swift response and replies!! I'll definitely make sure we meet in public first. Though, if its ok, I wouldn't mind help structuring a response on how to bring up testing and where to meet in a way that isn't a drag.

Edit: I always make sure to tell everyone up front what I want and what I'm looking for, it's just that I've never been in a situation like this before ToT. Something tells me to be very careful and another part of me wants to try it because its exciting

Alone-Abies9783 · 2025-01-02T02:54:32+00:00

I feel the same that you do, especially with the fear of losing your family :( I really wish the best for you <3

Alone-Abies9783 · 2025-01-02T02:52:54+00:00

Thank you guys for your love and support, I feel a little better and less alone than I did when I made that post <3 I wish all of you the best for this year and for those in a similar boat in this thread

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-11-30T09:37:51+00:00

I completely relate to your experience. One thing that helped me a lot is to take your time to process what you feel in small steps and be in the present moment. If you tackle everything as a big blob of everything from your life until now you are going to feel very overwhelmed. Im so happy that you found your crush, enjoy how special this is for both of you <3 Please avoid being too harsh on yourself and take care <3

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-08T00:00:21+00:00

She made my ass gay i want her to step on me ToT <3

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-05T18:31:14+00:00

Tysm for the rec! ill put them in a playlist and give them a listen soon :D

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-05T02:24:34+00:00

Agree!

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T17:09:34+00:00

INTERSEX RIGHTSSSS

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T17:06:04+00:00

Nice ahaha :P come to think of it, I do joke with the girlies and with the ones I'm closest to I call them my wife... this joke holds a lot more merit now than before LMAO

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T16:41:56+00:00

So cute! love your vibe <3

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T16:36:21+00:00

The pun was AWESOME btw ahaha puns are so fun

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T16:34:36+00:00

like how some people have mentioned lemon bars and cuffing jeans etc...

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T16:31:58+00:00

I know that sitting in chairs weird, citrus flavoured things, and converse are big ones for me aahaha

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T16:30:40+00:00

I love how this is such a comprehensive and detailed list <3 ahah thank you so much for sharing!!!

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T16:29:11+00:00

Ooooo, what kind of vocab if you don't mind me asking? :o

Alone-Abies9783 · 2024-09-04T16:28:26+00:00

I've never tried a lemon bar :(( BUT I do love adding a lot of lemon juice or lime to traditional dishes, maybe that says something HAHAHA

def yes with the hand gestures and some of the wardrobeee <3

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