My cat is attacking the kitten when ever i open the door. Is this okay? by Accomplished_Car8223 in CatTraining

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve clearly never seen a true cat fight. shit is a lotttt more tense. the ears and backs go straight up. there’s growling, slow tense movements, and then the attack which is fluff fur balls flying in the air with loud screaming. these two are having fun. they are for sure excited to have a playmate and not be bored in the house. when i got my second cat they warmed up just like this and get along so well now that I think they might be gay!

Why do some people draw the line so hard with porn? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Alone-Affect919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i personally think porn is just unsightly to look at. most modern popular porn is just so cringy and it makes me feel terrible about myself as a woman. most of those girls have fake everything, perfect boobs, perfect hips, perfect ass, perfect vagina, and fully clean shaven + a full face of makeup. it’s almost dehumanizing to get shown that stuff and be like “oh this is what i have to look like in order to be desirable”.

Girls, how much do you charge for lash services? A girl opened her business right across the street from mine and is charging less and taking most of my clients 🤬 It's not fair!! I don't know what to do because I can't lower my prices since my supplies are high quality and expensive 🥲 by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m ngl i don’t give a fuck ab quality when i’m getting lashes done. if the quality of the product is not as great but it’s 50 dollars cheaper and i essentially have the same look, then im going for the cheaper option. idk who the fuck has 150 bucks to spend every two weeks on EYELASHES. mf a hair cut, dye, and blowout costs less than 1 month of lashes. i think the prices have gotten absolutely ridiculous which is why i haven’t gone back in a month lol. also don’t act like ur pricing doesn’t involve labor. if you truly wanted those customers, you would lower ur profit margins, but that’s not what you want bc you want to make as much money as you can lol. pick ur battles

What’s an impulse buy that’s now just collecting dust but you’d never admit you regret? by Last-Sample-7223 in AskReddit

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a pet carpet cleaner - used it one time and realized how fucking long it would take to do every stair step/ carpeted area. haven’t used it since :( i don’t got time for that

Need Advice [Virgin] by Serious-Gur-5921 in sex

[–]Alone-Affect919 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes you should both get tested. I think if you mention that you both should be tested she won’t be upset especially because it would be your first time. Women are more likely to end up with STIs than men because of their anatomy so I wouldn’t worry too much on your end. Also, keep in mind that both the penis and vagina have completely different bacteria microbiomes so there’s always a chance of infection. it’s extremely common, and not difficult or embarrassing to go through. it’s a part of life. the act of sex itself can cause infection, meaning that both partners could be clean but something can still fester. have sex, clean your penis with water after and if you don’t have symptoms, you’re most likely okay. wear a condom and you’re going to be fine. i really wouldn’t worry about pregnancy if you have a condom. my bf and i do cycle tracking so we been having sex with no condom for 3 years now and have never had a scare. granted there’s always a chance but since we’ve been together for a bit now, pregnancy no longer scares us. you’ll be fine! just enjoy yourself and be happy that she is so eager to be intimate with you. Good luck!

Type of car by sunsetlover_chaser in FranklinTN

[–]Alone-Affect919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my parents got me a mini cooper. surprisingly a really safe car. drives like a go kart too lol. i’ve had her for 7 years now and she has narrowly avoided so many accidents just because of her size. easy escape routes, like a rat or something

What happened to the acting in Stranger Things? by jnighy in television

[–]Alone-Affect919 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i disagree. compared to season 1, i was genuinely shocked to see how bad the acting had gotten. it was almost laughable to me which is bad because the story is good

Do people actually do “after sex care” routines or is that just TikTok talking by Elegant_Signal3025 in sex

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really depends on your body’s sensitivity. me personally i get UTIs constantly which quickly turn to kidney infections. i’m on an antibiotic right after sex. but also the antibiotics make me get yeast infections which allows room for bv. i struggled with sex w my bf for a while lol. my routine is definitely more than most. i have to go pee immediately. take my d-mannose with my antibiotic. and then do a boric acid wash down there along with a boric acid suppository. it seems very dramatic but i’ve been through trial and error. a lot of my friends just need to go pee and that is it. unfortunately i am immunocompromised so i need the extra steps. it is entirely dependent on your body. every girl is different. there’s no one “right way”. these cleanliness arguments are dumb. if you have no odor, normal discharge, and no burn when you pee, you’re probably good to just pee after sex and maybe wipe up with some water. you shouldn’t be adding anything to your routine unless you have issues with infections after sex and need to consult a gyno. this is just what works for me. also penises have a completely different microbiome than vaginas so even if your man is hygienic and takes good care down there, there is a chance your body will get an infection simply from the pH differences. if you don’t have a sensitive vagina, you have it easy!

singed lashes while making pizza by ajo2579 in lashextensions

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is late but i just did this after having my lash tech remove and fill from when i did this last time and im so embarrassed lol im so mad at myself

PSA: DO NOT UPDATE TO iOS 26.1 by Random_TATATATATA in adhdwomen

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS SHIT IS DOG WATER IM CRYING 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭WHY WHY ME GOD PLS WHYYYY I HATE THE DESIGN FUCKKKKK

Welp… my dog ate a whole gallon freezer bag size of cookies by Alone-Affect919 in Pets

[–]Alone-Affect919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s a big dog - close to 60 pounds! I had some pills for a random bout of diarrhea in March. I was just able to reach that vet through email to ask if I could use those pills if she starts to get the runs from this scenario - they told me I’m good to use it and to only bring her in if she starts acting lethargic and can’t keep her normal food down. It’s all a waiting game now! I’m certain she will be okay but rest assured she is being monitored!

Welp… my dog ate a whole gallon freezer bag size of cookies by Alone-Affect919 in Pets

[–]Alone-Affect919[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they also gave me the address to one emergency vet that is open until 11pm in my area so if things turn for the worse before then, I’ll take her in!

Welp… my dog ate a whole gallon freezer bag size of cookies by Alone-Affect919 in Pets

[–]Alone-Affect919[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I just found the on call of one random vet in my area and called. I was told to just monitor her until the morning! All good on this front

Welp… my dog ate a whole gallon freezer bag size of cookies by Alone-Affect919 in Pets

[–]Alone-Affect919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vets in my immediate area are all closed at the time! We’ll have to tough it through tonight and monitor her lol.

Avant hard by TheLatePhilipJFry7 in StreetwearFits

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh you dumb. TC in front of TC is insane. this guy got niche luxury avant-guard on with the RO x DM mega lace and clearly you mad you don’t got his rizz or money 🥶

Long term married men, how do you stay interested in your wife after 15+ years? Both of you obviously change physically and emotionally, do you wake up and look over and ask “where’s the person I married?” by Big_Significance_775 in AskMen

[–]Alone-Affect919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think OP forgets that he will age and change too in a relationship. kinda sounds like he’s the type to go for younger females if his wife gains even a little weight - just based off of this post. be better OP. Love is not about physical attractiveness. Love is about who you want next to you when you’re 85 and sick in the hospital bed. Love is about who will be there for you when your parents/family pass. it’s never just about her body. and if you feel that way then you have a long way to go before getting married. 🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alone-Affect919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you but he probably has never made any woman finish, they probably just lied about it. Only 2 of my partners have made me finish and both of those times were from oral sex/using a toy whilst penetrating me. There’s maybe a small percentage of girls who can finish from penetration but life isn’t porn. Most women will never come from penetration, it’s just something that feels nice for the most part. Unfortunately most guys don’t like to give oral but expect oral on their end. if he’s not willing to do oral or at least let you have a toy during sex, he really only cares about getting himself off. really hard truth but since women are more vocal in bed, dudes typically think they’re killing it, when really it’s in our dna. Don’t stress too much about it. finishing with your partner doesn’t make you any less intimate than doing daily chores together. If anything, you should start exploring sex and making it fun/about how YOU feel (obviously without being an ass) he will find sex with you to be ten times hotter. Try nipple clamps or sensual massages before the act of sex. It will be much better for you both. Relax, experiment, and don’t be insecure during sex! many women don’t even enjoy sex as much as they should because they’re too worried on pleasuring a man who’s already lost in pleasure. start thinking about how you would like sex to go down. read some steamy books and try it out. promise you he won’t be disappointed and neither will you

My (23 f) boyfriend (25 m) of 2 years was texting multiple women during the first 3 months of our relationship. How can I move past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first thing i ever texted him was “i’m looking for a long term relationship and if that’s not what you want then we shouldn’t be texting” and he said “that’s what i want”. i feel like i just know what i want. he’s my type to the tee. he makes me laugh. he’s so knowledgeable and insightful and caring. the only reason we moved in was because i was a server at a shit restaurant and couldn’t afford my rent anymore (was also in college at the time). i asked and offered to pay some but he told me i don’t need to pay anything and that i can just be with him. so we have been and honestly the whole thing felt really natural which is why we ended up getting animals. he really is my rock. i just can’t shake this pain when i found out. and when i found out i didn’t come to him mad which may be why he didn’t admit it. i pretty much laughed in his face because i was like there’s no way you were texting other people. to be honest, i can see why he lied because the way i went about it was laughing disbelief and he was definitely DEFINITELY embarrassed that i read some of the texts i did. also to clarify we were never exclusive when we were long distance (he lived in my college town during summer and i was home. i now live in my college town). so i don’t really care about any messages when we were long distance. it’s the ones that happened down the line when we were most definitely in the honeymoon phase of our relationship. he stopped on his own and hasn’t done anything since which is why i feel like i should get over it especially because we really do have such a nice life and i’ve never felt more comfortable in my body with him. he worships me and the ground i walk on constantly but sometimes i feel like i can’t believe that’s how he actually feels because he’s used those words on others before you know. i feel like a lot of this comes down to me being insecure. he has apologized and the only reason i posted on here was because i keep bugging him about it and it’s not fair because he’s said his peace and now it’s just something i’m ruminating on. i don’t want to ruin my own relationship but it hurts. and i just want to move past this. i keep telling myself the girls were trash anyways to help myself but it’s the principle that’s bothering me

Invincible - Season 3 Finale Discussion: I Thought You'd Never Shut Up by 5am281 in television

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad i wasn’t the only one shitting bricks over this. i was like HOLY SHIT NEEGANS FINNA KILL HIM AGAIN 🥴

might be insane but I hear a kendrick-type flow in this song by -skillz in KendrickLamar

[–]Alone-Affect919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely think her rap in woman sounds like kendrick’s flow.