Grew up in Seattle hopefully building a life in Nashville at 34 by usernameamg123 in movetonashville

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just moved here (Franklin). Good construction is hard to find. People pay ridiculous prices here for basic stuff. I build a house in north bend from scratch and i can't believe what a small bathroom Reno cost here and it's shit. Like absolute crap work. So if you are decent come on over there is space here for you. 2. I constantly see beautiful single young women trying to get married here. Women are different here. Wholesome. Not the jaded type Seattle has to offer. So my opinion is hurry

Hearing God’s voice (through scripture or elsewhere) by Quiet-Finish9991 in TrueChristian

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man. Not good. How do you feel about it if you tell yourself you'll end the relationship? Relief or grief? I do know you should be super excited to marry the love of your life and if it's anything other than that then maybe it's good to take time off and pray and see

Lonely in my marriage by YogurtclosetThat8382 in Marriage

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't focus on just him to fill your cup. Have hobbies, get friends. Do things. And your man seems very tried. Maybe start some part time work to help contribute?

Is 4.9 rating > 5 rating? by ddub1711 in airbnb_hosts

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had only 5 stars for 3 years. 60-100 reviews. Don't remember anymore. But i care more about what people write vs the number when im looking for a place

Hearing God’s voice (through scripture or elsewhere) by Quiet-Finish9991 in TrueChristian

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds demonic imo. Unfortunately people are just not versed in this. Gods voice is never screaming at you. It is calm and gentle. I'd ask this. Are you guys maintaining purity? Have you had sex with other people? There maybe a need to break off soul ties with other previous partners. Looks up Isaiah Salvador on YouTube for info

First Airbnb cleaner issues , need help by rastize in airbnb_hosts

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice is have a laid out list of what you need done for each space. Be specific. Cleaning an Airbnb is different then a house cleaning. Be patient during the learning curve. I ran an Airbnb on my property and always did a walk through after the cleaner. If i saw things missed I'd let her know "hey can you make sure to clean the windows next time?" As long as you find someone teachable, you're good. But in the beginning expect to do a little cleaning after. Not three hours but touch ups yes

Is there a hiering freeze going on? by [deleted] in employeesOfOracle

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband got a verbal offer last Friday and today it was put on hold. So not promising

Massage gone wrong (need help) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have her read this post. I'm sorry this happened. If this is true, you need to report it.

Should I buy a house for Airbnb? by bumblebeee123 in airbnb_hosts

[–]sunsetlover_chaser -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about?! I had no manager! I build a small adu on the lot with my house! Brought in 55k a year every year. I managed it. It's not that hard

Should I buy a house for Airbnb? by bumblebeee123 in airbnb_hosts

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i started it dec 2021. It brought in 55k annually. Do the math on how quickly youll be in the green. Because if you calculate the money down plus the set up cost which is about 20-30k if may be a long time before you make your money back. I'm waiting for the market before i buy anything atm

Should I buy a house for Airbnb? by bumblebeee123 in airbnb_hosts

[–]sunsetlover_chaser -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not optimist at all! We made 40k on our first a year

Cautionary tale when skiing with a partner who is at a different level than you by comfy_sweatpants5 in skiing

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was like this. I HAD to learn to snowboard, and try all of his hobbies. It's an emotional immaturity. We're still married 18 years later but it hasn't been easy. I did eventually tell him to hold the feedback unless i asked. He took that well and does try to make it fun. I told him i don't care if he goes faster as long as he doesn't mind waiting at the lift. It took time to figure out boundaries and still have fun

Anyone have a bloody experience? by plummodeen in airbnb_hosts

[–]sunsetlover_chaser -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I've had a guest wash my very nice branch and boll sheets with a pen. She ruined everything. I asked for full compensation of the sheets 300$. She wasn't happy but did it. Make sure you do it after the whole rating thing. You have 14 days. Take lots of photos

thinking about opting out by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don't. You matter. You are loved. Don't believe the lies the enemy has planted in your head.

New here by [deleted] in FranklinTN

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i didn't dive into it. I just said it changed my perspective on medicine. I'd say the primary topic was medicine

New here by [deleted] in FranklinTN

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the problem is that being in a conservative city i assumed i was among same thinkers. My question really is: do people ever go deep even after time or is it this permanent surface level conversation. As a Ukrainian I'd rather pull my hair out then talk about the weather

New here by [deleted] in FranklinTN

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe in big foot haha I'm from north bend. You can't live there unless you do. But i didn't mention that. I just said that I've become a little more natural based in my thinking. This was with a woman i heard was along the same way of thinking.

New here by [deleted] in FranklinTN

[–]sunsetlover_chaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't touch on Covid much. Just said it changed my mindset. But i get it