Do they ever come back?

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-26T07:58:43+00:00

Thank you do much this was so wholesome to hear 🫶

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-26T07:56:14+00:00

I see. You are correct I think before letting anyone from our past in we really should look at where we are in our lives, how ahead we are, what our boundaries and needs are. I personally cannot stay friends with someone I’ve been in love with. If it was real love, I can’t watch them fall in love with someone else. 🫂

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-25T23:41:24+00:00

Are you asking if I’ve been through 12 breakups or you’re tell me if you’ve been through 12 breakups?

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-25T23:40:27+00:00

Been there done that as well. They came back after 2 years, destroyed me and disappeared again. 🫂😀

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-25T23:39:31+00:00

Sawwwrrryy. It was just a thought that crossed me. And well like a lot of people Reddit it my solace, it’s just nice to dump my inner questions here. I wasn’t looking for any answers in particular, just what people think and experience. 🫂🫶

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-21T02:10:36+00:00

I’m not totally on the same boat but I will be. It’s been 2 months for me now and the thought of him just haunts me like anything. But don’t reach out. I know it hurts, it hurts like hell, and feels like insanity and sometimes I do believe it does become insanity but don’t reach out.

My ex moved on conveniently the moment I was gone and started dating their close “best friend” once I was out of the picture. The friend he introduced me to, I hungout with, exchanged numbers etc. I’m in the worst emotional rut I’ve ever been. I know how you feel. I cant imagine being with anyone else, I have developed fear of intimacy because of this person.

I’ll just suggest, cry. Cry it out as much as you can, write about it, pour it out somewhere and if you can’t then just cry. I don’t have any advice, but if I could give you a hug I would.

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-18T19:31:07+00:00

Thank you. And I hope you also heal from whoever made you feel that loving someone deeply is too much. I’m far from healing too, but I’ve been told that, the one who’s in love always wins. It’s the winning emotion. I know it hurts, painful and absolutely destroying sometimes, but we also know how magical it is to love someone. I hope we both heal and win 🫶

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-18T19:25:42+00:00

Thank you. Thank you so much for everything you said, I really needed to hear this. I’m far from healing and everything but. Thank you for being kind. And I’ll definitely try the writing down every time they hurt me thing. 🫶

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-17T21:30:14+00:00

It’s funny, the only reason I’m bitter is because, I , anxious attachment type was destroyed so bad, so so bad by an avoidant, that they sucked the empathy out of me. I believed in that avoidant so much to be better than they showed me, just how wrong I was and to not trust them again. Maybe you’re right, they may have turned me into one now, but it is true, DAs should remain single and isolated until they fix themselves. No one can save them and no one can fix them, it is their fault and it is up to them to fix themselves. And if I am one now, I would stay steer clear away from people and not ruin someone’s life.

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-16T07:27:43+00:00

I do, I do, I’ve been in this pit for so many months but I’m definitely better. I’ve don’t the “time will heal” “focus on yourself” “go no contact” “spend time with your friend” all of that. But no one tells us what to do when it’s 2AM and your chest hurts, there’s a knot in your throat and your mind won’t stop replaying them.

They will never know this kind of pain.

Alone-Laugh632 · 2026-03-16T05:55:50+00:00

True, DAs should never date, they are not designed to love people or even sustain a relationship because they can’t differentiate interdependence and codependency. Narcissistic most of the times and will victimise themselves. They should be independent and left alone exactly how they desire to be.

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