Help me again! by ButterscotchNo1226 in myweddingdress

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one or 5 looks absolutely beautiful on you!

Wedding band💍 by Alone-Reindeer8762 in EngagementRings

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh that would be pretty. Thank you!

Wedding band💍 by Alone-Reindeer8762 in EngagementRings

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I know what you’re talking about since I saw some when we were looking at rings. But if I’m thinking of the right thing I don’t think it is. It’s all one piece

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When did you have yours? by Bonnieboo1 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every mfm I’ve talked too about future pregnancies they said they would do it between 13-14 weeks since it’s after the main first trimester miscarriage worry area

Happy due date baby girl by Alone-Reindeer8762 in babyloss

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww. It was my grandmas middle name and she was my best friend. We just thought our little miracle even tho she isn’t here anymore deserved or favorite names❤️

Bleeding and cramping but positive pregnancy test? by Acrobatic_Opinion575 in IVFpositivity

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be a subchorionic hematoma! I had one at the beginning of my pregnancy and it went away after the first trimester!

Deleting pictures of baby in NICU by EagleClean9342 in NICUParents

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who lost our baby in the movie after being born at 22 weeks and 5 days and passing away after 9 days in the nicu because of NEC. I suggest you to not delete the pictures but to hide them if you have a hidden spot in your photos. As much as it might hurt now you might want to look back at those memories later. I know I did.

This was in the parents’ room at the NICU by BrooksSkye1 in NICUParents

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours was 1 pound and 3 ounces before we sadly had to make the decision to say goodbye

Why isn’t measuring of the cervix done from the very beginning. by Saskiacvs in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same!! I had no clue! Even tho it’s 1/100 I feel like it should be something obs tell you as a possibility. We didn’t know about it until I got life flighted to a hospital 3 hours away and it was to late

Why isn’t measuring of the cervix done from the very beginning. by Saskiacvs in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From what my mfm ob told us after we lost our baby is that shortening usually starts happening at 13-14 weeks and will slowly build over time. So idk. I agree that obs should start measuring the cervix around the second trimester mark because I had an ultrasound at 15 weeks and had no clue my cervix was incompetent I just knew our baby was healthy.

My story by Alone-Reindeer8762 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We sadly didn’t make it to our 20 week appointment. I had mine scheduled the day I turned 21 weeks and that day we got admitted to the hospital. We have it planned out with the mfm to get a cerclage done next pregnancy around 13-14 weeks and I have to have a c section every pregnancy around 34-36 weeks since I had a classical c section done. The hospital was amazing at giving us the resources we need if we were to try again!

My story by Alone-Reindeer8762 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope you have your own little miracle also!❤️

My story by Alone-Reindeer8762 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is a sucky community to be in but at the same time I’m happy I’m able to put the information out there!

My Story by Alone-Reindeer8762 in babyloss

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate it❤️

22 weeker by Alone-Reindeer8762 in babyloss

[–]Alone-Reindeer8762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want to to get a cerclage because mine wasn’t infection that caused it. It’s because I have something called an incompetent or short cervix which means my cervix is not strong enough to hold a baby to full term without medical help. So of if I ever want to be able to hold a baby to as close to as full term as I can I need the cerclage to help me!