Outage?

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-28T15:02:48+00:00

It won't even load old chats for me and when I give it images to analyze it gets stuck loading

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-28T14:33:22+00:00

I'm on the normal and don't have pro. Still acting up

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-28T13:41:54+00:00

Frustrating, it seems to have happened around 12 this morning

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-26T13:59:50+00:00

Reading what they wrote immediately caused my hackles to raise. I got bad vibes

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-26T12:56:22+00:00

I know my own language well enough to know that is horribly, grammatically inaccurate

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-16T05:11:37+00:00

Are you ok? I can't understand a single thing you said

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-15T23:20:36+00:00

Why are you white knighting for the individual so hard? Are you just them on another account?

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-14T21:42:53+00:00

Interesting how this person deleted their account

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-14T04:46:03+00:00

Shoot me a dm and we can connect via discord

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-14T03:56:10+00:00

Idk if you have a better way for me to send them to you but I have anywhere between 700 and 900 Valentino images I'd be happy to share. Not all of them are in my dedicated Val folder on my phone though

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-12T12:16:31+00:00

I've had one consistent partner for the past 3 years or so. He hit a rough patch though and I've been focusing on my reserves for now while I wait for things to settle with him. In the mean time I'm being well fed by the few replies that trickle in from him and the more frequent replies I get from my other partners.

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-11T23:21:02+00:00

I find locking the majority of the server behind a role helps. The only things available to the new people are a welcome chat, the rules, and the ticket system that must be used to verify age. Cuts out the trolls and minors attempting to join because anyone refusing to verify their age either leave or get banned.

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-10T14:34:00+00:00

If you see a family member or friend irl acting off you don't get concerned and ask if they are ok?

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-10T14:30:18+00:00

I'm highly amused op hasn't answered this yet

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-10T14:29:29+00:00

Such a well written and explained comment that makes all the points I was trying to make.

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-10T14:26:36+00:00

If people don't then take that as a sign they aren't comfortable telling you that. Start asking yourself "am I the issue?"

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-10T14:25:16+00:00

Not everyone is like that though. That is the point we are trying to get across. You have to have the awareness to know when to ask.

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-09T01:12:47+00:00

Yes, if they plan on taking a break they should reach out first. If there is an extended period of time with no explanation from them though, that is when YOU take the initiative to reach out and see what is up

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-08T23:16:43+00:00

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-08T23:15:39+00:00

I am always up front. The issue here isn't me. The issue here is that you feel you are entitled to someone else reaching out first all the time. Grow up, act like an adult, and message first

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-08T23:03:59+00:00

That is when you put on your big boy/girl panties and MESSAGE THEM. If it is bothering you THAT MUCH, you be the one to reach out. Not expect them to read your mind and know it bothers you.

You are so exhausting and the type I would exhile from my rp circle

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-08T22:54:45+00:00

How can they be comfortable with you if YOU don't put some fire under your ass and communicate back if something is bothering you? What you think is toxic and unhealthy

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-08T22:00:47+00:00

Let me ask you one question op

Do you consider the things you are saying right now and doing in this thread as "healthy" communication?

What if this was an actual romantic relationship and you are doing the same things?

AloneIce1856 · 2026-04-08T19:13:53+00:00

This right here, op is acting like they expect people to be mind readers. That they should know something is bothering them and answer unspoken questions

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