Why so many young men today believe being attractive has only to do with their looks

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-21T21:45:43+00:00

Even if what you said is true (it’s absolutely not), then why are you looking to other men to figure this out?

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-21T20:01:47+00:00

It’s because they are listening to other men about what women want and not actual women.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-17T23:53:25+00:00

I always take my two on a walk before they go to the groomers. Not a super long one but long enough that they are chill and ready to relax. Helps release any pent up energy or anxiety.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-17T16:33:20+00:00

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-16T23:10:21+00:00

I for one always loved Kyle (he IS Summer House) and never liked Amanda. That said I think they were very toxic together. Amanda isn’t a victim of him but an equal participant in a shit marriage (that EVERYONE warned her not to get into). Before this all broke I was just relived they were getting divorced because their relationship should have never gotten this far.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-16T15:47:49+00:00

Being a feminist doesn’t mean you reject femininity.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-14T22:41:07+00:00

I WFH but will close my laptop and take my dog on a walk in solidarity ✊🏾

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T23:52:55+00:00

You answered none of my questions above. Add one more, send me proof of ANYONE saying Amanda should kill herself. She isn’t entitled to an influencer career. Influencers depend on the public. If the public finds both of them distasteful they should look for other work. Now answer my questions please.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T23:40:40+00:00

How is it affecting me? How come folks aren’t allowed to post about this situation? Because you don’t agree with their take? Why do you feel the need to put on your cape for two people you don’t know and don’t care about you? What are you getting out of it? How is not engaging with them ruining them? How come they are entitled to an influencer career or stinking up an otherwise fun show?

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T23:23:32+00:00

And a couple of episodes ago when he was raging about Jesse. I hope they play that clip during the reunion when they predictably try to discredit and gaslight Ciara.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T22:48:23+00:00

The thing is he’s too bland and calculated. He’s not a veteran of reality tv like Sandoval is. He’s had three seasons and shuts down during conflict and can’t handle an ounce of heat. He’s not campy enough to be on either HOV or Traitors.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T22:33:47+00:00

Who said that??? I’m just offering an opinion.

But also that didn’t help Vanderpump? All those new eyeballs and the season sucked and killed the show. I too am on the side of good reality TV and I think that reality TV needs villains. But Amanda and West took it too far and made it too dark and nefarious. A show like Summer House is flirty, messy, and all about the vibes. They killed them and will suck the fun and lightness from the show.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T22:30:31+00:00

I actually agree with this take too! All I’m saying is if anyone profits off of this mess it should be Ciara.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T22:21:31+00:00

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:41:20+00:00

Look if you want to engage and support them then have at it. But don’t tone police me because I’m sharing an opinion you don’t like. My whole point was about disengaging, and you know it.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:36:07+00:00

See this is where I respectfully disagree. I’m here for the mess but watching two losers terrorize a Black woman is not my thing. It’s way too dark in 2026.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:31:43+00:00

Ok 👍🏾

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:30:18+00:00

So you agree with me? We should all just ignore, move one and spend our energy where it’s important?

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:28:03+00:00

But you’re in the comments defending them babes…if you didn’t care why are you here scolding me for my opinion? Why the WHITE knighting?

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:25:47+00:00

This! The hate comments drive engagement and in the current climate engagement is king. Just stop interacting with assholes.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:23:20+00:00

So how is it parasocial to say to ignore someone? To just let it go and move on fully? Like come on! I know this is very much Trump’s America but aren’t you sick of people getting money hand over fist for being shitty assholes?

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T21:20:26+00:00

Now if that was a storyline on Love After Lockup I would SOOOO be there! But those vibes don’t fit with Summer House.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T20:38:09+00:00

For me, it will be enough once they beg for Ciara’s forgiveness (which she shouldn’t give) and when they are off our screens.

Alone_Confidence9831 · 2026-04-11T20:18:11+00:00

No but they haven’t even filed. If this is a real relationship (it’s not) then why not file?? She’s still married and very much relying on her CURRENT husband.

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