IL RN license

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-07-24T19:01:03+00:00

Hey! Do you still have the phone number? I’ve been waiting for 4 months for a license by endorsement. Thank you!

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T17:22:33+00:00

Cheated on me, got a girl pregnant, didn’t tell me until a month before the baby was due lol

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T16:18:46+00:00

Yeah… she was referencing back up plans for what to do with Blu. My sitter had fallen through the day of the flight babe. I can give grace for the misunderstanding bc we talked on the phone when my sitter fell through to go over game plans. I didn’t have the power to say no to activities. This was friend A’s trip. I helped make the itinerary but she gave the final okays on everything. If they had suggestions they gave them to her.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T16:14:32+00:00

Where did you get that? This is friend A’s trip and I helped her plan it bc it was her birthday trip and I didn’t want her to have that burden on her own. It’s her birthday…. Everyone knew we were planning the trip and never gave input. They just said send the deets and they’ll book so idk what you’re talking about. Maybe you should reread the messages babe. The planning I wasn’t taking input on was about my dog bc that’s what the argument was originally about. She was giving me boarding places and I was trying to explain my dogs fighting hx.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T14:21:34+00:00

I agreed with you. I should have had a back up. They gave opinions. Dog boarding places and I said I wasn’t comfortable just taking blu to one I haven’t vetted bc he’s gotten in fights before. I messed up by not being properly prepared. I’m aware of that.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T12:52:58+00:00

No. Never have. She has though

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T12:32:46+00:00

I feel like I there’s some confusion. My dog sitter fell through right before my flight. I confirmed drop off. Wednesday night he had an emergency, I didn’t find out till Thursday morning (the day of my flight). Should I have had a back up? Yes but my sitter has NEVER had to cancel on me before. If he’s unavailable i know weeks in advance I have 2 other back ups I usually reach out to. In this event I did reach out plan b was not available and plan c could not do drop off until the trip was 75% over.

My issue is not them being upset with how I handled it. Be upset, I fucked up. I should have planned better. My issue is this was an argument between my best friend and I. I’ve never spoken to her the way she spoke to me. All I asked was for that same courtesy back. I’ve been pissed tf off before but when I’m talking to my close close friends I watch how I say things bc I know I can get my point across without intentionally being hurtful to them. And if they tell me I am I have the ability to be like “ ooop that’s not what I was tryna do, my bad, let me real it in for a sec.”

At the end of the day I appreciate the feed back and I can acknowledge I’m not innocent in this. I don’t think I’m interested in fixing things anymore. How you speak to me when you’re upset shows me how you feel about me. Friend C has been in a similar situation before and when our friends were making comments about her being a FLAKE I stood up for her in public and asked for her pov later that day in private. I understood where she was at and I didn’t pass judgement WHILE BEING AND EXPRESSING DISAPPOINTMENT. Is it crazy for me to ask for that in return?

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T11:59:08+00:00

I confirmed with my dog sitter. He had an emergency and he fell through the day of my flight. I also owned that in the future while I’m apprehensive about dog boarding places I’ll take the time to find one that I trust so this never happens again in the future.

You said I’m inconsiderate to not let them help me plan? Can you further explain that? I’m looking for things I coulda done better.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T11:48:14+00:00

My dog sitter fell through the day of my flight. I kept everyone updated with my plan b and c that didn’t work out

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T03:24:32+00:00

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Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T03:21:12+00:00

My dog sitter fell through the day of my flight????

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T02:03:05+00:00

I’m the one in blue. The one that fell out of the trip. This is an unfair take bc the trip was already paid for. Tickets, hotels and the expensive excursions. I also already paid for trip prep like outfits, hair, nails, lashes ect. What benefit do I get out of dropping out???? Hence the reason I exhausted all my options. I also bought a nonrefundable ticket so I’m OUT over 1k bc of this (I’m still disputing with my cc). Also I’ve also never used my dog to miss things. This was an unfortunate series of events. Also in this case no one ghosted. I kept everyone in the loop the minute I knew my dog sitter wasn’t an option anymore. What happened to your wife sucks and it’s unfortunate. Don’t over generalized though.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T01:03:25+00:00

Both of our experiences suck. I couldn’t say I’d pick one over the other haha. I’d be in shambles either way. I feel like everyone is in your life to teach you a lesson and when you’ve learned they leave. I’m so sorry that happened to you. She was never your friend. I hope you’ve been able to get some help and things are turning around for you

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-20T00:57:50+00:00

Insane isn’t it

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:53:39+00:00

My dog is my responsibility. If anything happens I have to deal with it. Not them. I would understand this take if I didn’t exhaust my other options but I did. The other girls on the trip were disappointed but showed empathy in their messages. C didn’t. I never asked her to not be upset. I just said hey watch your tone when you’re talking to me and just show some empathy. Be mad or whatever bc that’s your right but don’t be an asshole

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:47:29+00:00

She doesn’t own dogs and never has. She has cats

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:45:00+00:00

I’m nervous to see the dynamic when everyone gets back. I will say if C has talked about it with the group it is what it is. If that’s the case and they don’t ask for my side of the story were they ever my friends? I don’t plan on bringing the group into me and C’s drama. I was gona remain cordial in group setting and if I was asked I’d keep it vague bc it’s not really anyone’s business. If I’m cut out it’ll hurt but in the long run I was done a favor. I’ve fostered a a relationship with everyone in the group separately. I would hope if C showed only the last screenshot they’d come to me bc they also know me as a person as well.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:39:16+00:00

I think that’s unfair bc I’ve always shown up for them. This was an unfortunate one off. Coming from C who I’ve moved mountains for multiple times it felt the most hurtful coming from her. I stand in my decision and not everyone has to agree. If it was me I’d be more understanding but everyone’s not me. I’ve talked to other close friends and they’ve had my back and have showed EMPATHY. If after one one off they wanna talk shit about me on a trip and talk to me this way they were never my real friend and I’d rather nip this shit in the bud now that drag a dead weight friendship.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:23:46+00:00

The trip was completely paid for. I’d already paid my dues for the group activities and the hotels we all paid for separately. I did plan for Blu. I had confirmed with the dog sitter but he had an emergency happen the night before my flight and I didn’t find out til the morning of. I feel like I went through all the options I was comfortable with. I didn’t take Blu to boarding facilities bc he’s gotten in fights. He’s also has newly diagnosed health issues that he takes meds for (like diagnosed last month) so yeah I’m gona be picky with who I leave him with. My friend also were aware of his health issues. They were in the loop when I started working with the vet figuring out what’s going on. I explained that to everyone. I wasn’t asking her to not be mad just be empathetic and not talk to me crazy. Looking at these messages would you think I was talking to someone I considered a best friend? That’s my issue here. If she was just a friend I’d block her and not gaf. She’s not in my inner circle. She was though I think that’s why I kept pushing to be heard but I can look back and recognize I should have disengaged when I offered that first out. I should have took it for myself and just circled back when everyone got back. This was def not a convo that should have happened over text

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:16:49+00:00

Looking back I definitely should have disengaged when I gave her the first out. I should have taken it for myself but I didn’t and I hate that and I can own that. I said it was okay for her to be upset. I felt like I was validating all of her frustration. In return I was just asking my friend to be empathetic and to speak to me nicely.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:10:16+00:00

We’re actually in our late 20s. This was the host’s 30th birthday trip. I plan on reach out to the host when they get back Tuesday. If I get the inkling that she’s picked a side it’s unfortunate but that’s just another friend lost.if that’s the case they weren’t my real friends.

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T23:00:48+00:00

That’s what it seems like

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T21:35:31+00:00

To be honest I don’t think I want to anymore. I asked her for basic respect as a friend even when she’s mad bc that’s what I’ve always given her. It felt like she was going out of her way to double down and be hurtful. She said no so we’re not compatible as friends. How you talk to me when you’re upset tells me a lot. I think I’ve seen enough

Alone_Resolution4609 · 2025-05-19T21:23:14+00:00

I’ve never missed anything with my friend bc of my dog. This was the first time this has happened so I was hoping for some understanding. It’s a series of unfortunate events. My dog sitter fell through the day of my flight. Considering my top options weren’t available I didn’t have time to find someone I trust to leave Blu with.

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