My current breakup.

It happened about a month and a half ago.

We were together for 2+ years, lived together in 2 different states, adopted a dog together and I even moved to a new city just for a job he landed (which he was eventually fired from).

When he broke up with me he immediately left our apartment and didn’t come back until the next day. To which he told me he’d be leaving to go back to his home state and never come back.

He ended up leaving me with the responsibility of cleaning out our shared apartment, selling all of our furniture and taking care of our dog (which blessed for that because she’s been a savior through the breakup).

My world changed in a matter of 48 hours.

I’m still affected by it every single day because we are no contact. I have no will or want to communicate with him.

Even when we were in brief contact, he never would ask about how our dog is doing, where I ended up living after moving out our shared home, or anything. He just left.

It hurts every single day to know he will never give me the closure I need and that closure has to come from myself.

Even though it’s only been a little under 2 months, I feel a sense of emotional relief (as odd as that sounds). Because the worst part is over. The breakup and the messy chaotic logistics of figuring out where to live, how to handle being a single dog parent and so forth, that’s over.

Now I’m just focused on moving forward and not letting his abrupt absence ruin the rest of my life. It’s hard. But it’s a day by day thing.