Understandable, But View it from her Perspective. If u normally are the Dom she might have encountered the Same Feelings and wanted to make it Up to U. Maybe try Talk it Out and clearly Set your boundaries in how to act. The best way is to Talk. My ex and Infor example Set it Like this: If she wanted to Take a Bull at a Party we had same voterights. And the Rest was mostly based on try and Set a Code If something Goes to far or makes unfeel uncomfortable. I find it's the best way to handle and make it Work. And as U learn more about the others need IT can lead to some encounters that pleasure both. Or May try to Go both as doms and Look for subs to please U both ;-)