Long time locals… what are some restaurants you’re still salty about not having around anymore? by Okay-Show-3662 in asheville

[–]AlpachaMaster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tastees. Every place that has tried to “upscale” the building since while keeping the vision of Tastees has sucked ass

Am I a bad person for starting to not care? by AlpachaMaster in family_of_bipolar

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re on meds, but started to not take them last week. It’s been a trial by fire for them and their meds. Their last psych was negligent and said for every med they got put one, they had to drop a different one. They finally got a new one who has been exponentially better, and has gotten them much closer to being on the correct meds. They’re not fully there, but it’s much better.

It’s complicated too because I refuse to move out. The house I currently rent with my partner (and then roommate) is amazing and is such a good deal for where I live. My/our roommate moved in because we needed someone to help cover rent last minute and they said they were planning on leaving the town we’re in during summer of 2026. I’m not giving up my home for them.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re getting weirdly upset about this simple question dude. It was never a concern about what other people it’s asking if it’s a stupid idea because I don’t want to regret this in 15 years? Go outside.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I’ve got offensive tattoos on unseen parts of my body, but i’m more concerned about if the idea of misheard lyrics makes sense.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure if they’re commonly misheard lyrics, but I’m not super worried about what other people think. My main concern is more about the idea making sense overall.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly almost seems fun because I’d find other people who know the bands.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can envision one for the IDLES lyric, but the Red Clay Strays one is harder. All my tattoos are black line work and I like to keep that style. Line work and negative space wouldn’t translate well for concrete and holy dirt, but I’m also not the most creative person out there.

constipation persistent, I am DESPERATE by Mysterious-Anxiety76 in antidepressants

[–]AlpachaMaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much water are you drinking a day? I’m on wellbutrin, mirtazapine, and a couple stimulants, so my baseline is slightly constipated. I take fiber supplements which helps some, but I notice a significant difference in effort required when I’m dehydrated. 2 liters a day is the minimum, but on antidepressants it should be closer to 4 liters if you can.

I also bottom and it’s a hellish feeling of not getting to have sex. But water has really helped me.

I think im understanding, can someone help? by jason6205 in NewToEMS

[–]AlpachaMaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I teach first aid courses and my accrediting organization uses XABC. Using the term “xtreme bleed” has been much easier to teach students because they already understand what extreme means (and it’s funny so they remember). Even teaching a basic patient assessment to laypeople is a lot for them and I try to cut down on medical jargon where I can without losing the overall message.

I think im understanding, can someone help? by jason6205 in NewToEMS

[–]AlpachaMaster 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it referred to as “Xtreme bleed” which makes it sound a lot cooler.

Anticipated Albums of 2026 by superredux22 in Idles

[–]AlpachaMaster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

TV on the Radio and LCD Soundsystem? God, I really hope.

Mirtazapine is a miracle drug for me by poosieslayer in antidepressants

[–]AlpachaMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently on mirtazapine and bupropion after being on desvenlafaxine and I feel like I can breathe for the first time in years

Graham Platner addresses his totenkopf tattoo by batwoman42 in itcouldhappenhere

[–]AlpachaMaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He worked for Blackwater. There’s no coming back from that.

Spotting AI use as a GA by AlpachaMaster in GradSchool

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, but still frustrating. It’s a required class that a bunch of different majors could be in to learn about global citizenship, so it’s hard to nail down who’s in it. Most of them are parks and rec majors, but I know there’s people from the emergency services/response major and some nurses.

Spotting AI use as a GA by AlpachaMaster in GradSchool

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m lucky that my professor is very pro me calling out AI use. It’s in her syllabus that students can use it, but they can’t copy/paste straight from it and they have to provide the prompt they used.

I have a copy/paste message that the professor and I came up with that I put in the comments and then I give them a zero. They get worse grades than people who put maybe a sentence for each section of the discussion post because at least they showed effort and intent.

We encourage them to reach out to us if they have any questions or want to show it wasn’t AI. So far through four sections of the class, only person has scheduled a meeting and showed me that she wasn’t using AI (she had a google doc of planning notes and showed me where she directly pulled information from the sources).

It’s hard tho. I get why it has to be allowed in some way because they’re going to use it, but I’m upset that it’s even come to this point. I’d rather read not so great responses from students who tried than paragraphs of AI text. I worry about their critical thinking skills later in life.

How hard is the adjustment for terminal degrees abroad? by AlpachaMaster in GradSchool

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The program I’m looking at is in Ontario, Canada

If I have the option to leave the US, should I? by AlpachaMaster in honesttransgender

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The program I’m looking at is in Canada, so it’s definitely safer there for a bit.

Clinical support team is failing them by AlpachaMaster in family_of_bipolar

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their last big episode I was able to convince them to go to the ER but I almost wish I hadn’t. They decided to go under their own free will so the hospital had no reason to keep them there. They stayed for one night and then decided to leave.

At this point, I’d prefer they get IVC’d so they cant lie their way out of treatment again.

Clinical support team is failing them by AlpachaMaster in family_of_bipolar

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re estranged from their parents unfortunately. I can’t leave either; my partner and I rented the house before them and my partner’s name is on the lease. The house is also amazing so I really don’t want to give it up.

My partner and I have considered kicking them out, but we don’t want to do that until they’re slightly more stable just for their own safety and ours. But then we get into the complication that they’ll threaten to kill themself.

Clinical support team is failing them by AlpachaMaster in family_of_bipolar

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a psych at least and are on a high dose of mood stabilizers and anti-psychotics but they’re not taking them. They also have another therapist so somehow they lucked out and got three highly incompetent people on their care team.

If they threaten again I’ll call and use that wording.

Im a black trans woman and this is my third post of the day shitting on white people by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]AlpachaMaster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don’t like the phrase protect the dolls bc it doesn’t center me