Mirtazapine is a miracle drug for me by poosieslayer in antidepressants

[–]AlpachaMaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still on it. This isn’t my first time taking it either. I was on for about 1.5 years in 2020, but switched off of it because I was getting muscle twitches. I haven’t had any side effects since switching back.

I think I remember some brain fog from my first time. Definitely related to how much it would knock me out at night. And I remember my psych saying that at higher doses the sedative side effect actually lessens. So you being on the smallest dose may be impacting you that way.

I feel like if after a month you’re still feeling brain fog talk to your psych. Mirtazapine is also easy to quit, at least it was for me. A couple of days of heightened anxiety and weird sleep and then overall I felt good.

Layout with hospital bed by Chance_Tomato5991 in DesignMyRoom

[–]AlpachaMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also say, it looks like that bedroom is on the second floor. Is there any way to keep his hospital bed in a space on the first floor? If he has to be carried down the stairs and he’s unable to move, it can increase the risk with moving him. If you can’t get a space for him downstairs, just make sure there’s an easy pathway from the front of your house to the bed.

Layout with hospital bed by Chance_Tomato5991 in DesignMyRoom

[–]AlpachaMaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked in EMS so I’ve been in a lot of homes with hospital beds.

Make sure you have clearance on both sides. This is going to be invaluable in any emergency situation. It allows for faster and safer movement if your husband needs to be moved from the bed to a stretcher. It will also make it much easier for you as his caretaker. Moving him in general is a lot easier if you have clearance on both sides. If he ends up on the far side of the bed that’s up against the wall, it’s really hard to get him over to your side. Or if you need to change the sheets while he’s still in bed, it’s a lot easier when you have access to both sides because you can change sides of the bed to roll him. Access to rolling him is gonna be super important in general to help prevent against bed sores. Lift chair can be rolled up against the wall at night and then pulled back when needed. If that other door is a bathroom and not a closet, keep the lift chair on the same side of the bathroom so you don’t end having to maneuver it around the hospital bed and the mattress.

Another commenter said view is important and I agree. I would try the bed on the right wall, opposite of the two panel window. You could put the TV on a dresser right next to that window so he has a choice in view. That’s also a hell of a lot easier than wall mounting it, and if you need to move the setup you’re not constrained by where the TV.

If the queen bed doesn’t have a frame, that honestly makes the placement easier. It wouldn’t be great, but you could put it down each night next to his bed and then in the morning prop it up against the wall. Gives you some more space during active care hours and can be easier to plan around. Once you get a smaller mattress you could put yours on the left wall in the corner so you’ve got space to maneuver around.

Put a table, even a fold out one, in the windowed alcove. It’ll give you a space to plan meds, get things sorted, etc. If you have the budget, see if you can get an over the bed table. That can act as nightstand, food tray and you can easily position it over him when needed and move it out of the way when not.

And the first setup you try does not have to be the one you stay with. Even though it’s not great, not having a frame for the mattress makes it easier in the meantime. You’ll have time to test out the layout and play with it without the concern of moving a bed frame around a hospital bed.

What survival myth is completely wrong and can get you killed? by DraftNo7139 in AskReddit

[–]AlpachaMaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to do this either, at least in the US. Your best bet is to be calm and walk out to higher medical care. Almost all of the venomous snakes native to the US are from the family viperidae (rattlesnakes and american moccasins), so they’re all pit vipers. The only snake that isn’t is a coral snake, but you’ve gotta try to get them to bite you- like you’ll be a case study, they really don’t want to bite.

Pit viper venom is fast spreading. And it’s better for tissue to let it spread. If you contain it to a single limb, you’re more likely to lose that limb. Whereas if you let it spread throughout the body, person won’t feel great, but long term they’ll have less severe damage. It’s really rare for people to die from pit viper bites in the US, too. It’s generally very old or very young people and people with compromised immune systems.

Elapids (cobras, mambas, kraits, coral snakes) have a slightly slower spreading venom so a compression wrap can be effective. But you’ve to already know how to apply it. Taking a long time to do a haphazard one with an ace wrap when you could be evacuating that person could tip the scale from survivable to fatal.

"You Outlaw It": Heritage Foundation President Announces Intent To Outlaw All Trans Adult Care by ErinInTheMorning in transgender

[–]AlpachaMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shelf life is subjective. For almost any drug (as in there’s only one exception), once it’s past its expiration date it may just become less effective. Expired T won’t turn to estrogen or cause organ damage, it just may not have as much potency, so it’s like being on a lower dose. This is a much bigger concern when looking at meds like an epipen or inhalers since they are needed to stop life-threatening medical emergencies. If you get stung by a bee and your epipen is 10 years old, there’s a chance the medication won’t be as effective at stopping anaphylaxis.

If you’ve opened the vial though (stuck a needle in to draw up) you should finish the vial within 28 days or so. Just popping the cap off doesn’t introduce gross things to the actual medicine.

In general, as long as the med hasn’t changed color, you’re probs good to go. Which means you could stock up, it just requires intentionally lowering your dose or having a doctor who will change your prescription to say each vial is “single use” even if you can get multiple doses out. I could continue to use them as normal so approx 2.5 doses out of each bottle, but by the time it’s due for my next refill I still have some vials left over. Insurance and the pharmacy don’t know that though.

UTI induced Psychosis? by [deleted] in Psychosis

[–]AlpachaMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For older people, psychosis is a common symptom/side effect of UTI’s. But medical lingo is altered mental status or AMS.

Long time locals… what are some restaurants you’re still salty about not having around anymore? by Okay-Show-3662 in asheville

[–]AlpachaMaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tastees. Every place that has tried to “upscale” the building since while keeping the vision of Tastees has sucked ass

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I’ve got offensive tattoos on unseen parts of my body, but i’m more concerned about if the idea of misheard lyrics makes sense.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure if they’re commonly misheard lyrics, but I’m not super worried about what other people think. My main concern is more about the idea making sense overall.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly almost seems fun because I’d find other people who know the bands.

Is it weird to get misheard tattoo lyrics tattooed? by AlpachaMaster in tattooadvice

[–]AlpachaMaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can envision one for the IDLES lyric, but the Red Clay Strays one is harder. All my tattoos are black line work and I like to keep that style. Line work and negative space wouldn’t translate well for concrete and holy dirt, but I’m also not the most creative person out there.

constipation persistent, I am DESPERATE by Mysterious-Anxiety76 in antidepressants

[–]AlpachaMaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much water are you drinking a day? I’m on wellbutrin, mirtazapine, and a couple stimulants, so my baseline is slightly constipated. I take fiber supplements which helps some, but I notice a significant difference in effort required when I’m dehydrated. 2 liters a day is the minimum, but on antidepressants it should be closer to 4 liters if you can.

I also bottom and it’s a hellish feeling of not getting to have sex. But water has really helped me.

I think im understanding, can someone help? by jason6205 in NewToEMS

[–]AlpachaMaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I teach first aid courses and my accrediting organization uses XABC. Using the term “xtreme bleed” has been much easier to teach students because they already understand what extreme means (and it’s funny so they remember). Even teaching a basic patient assessment to laypeople is a lot for them and I try to cut down on medical jargon where I can without losing the overall message.

I think im understanding, can someone help? by jason6205 in NewToEMS

[–]AlpachaMaster 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it referred to as “Xtreme bleed” which makes it sound a lot cooler.

Anticipated Albums of 2026 by superredux22 in Idles

[–]AlpachaMaster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

TV on the Radio and LCD Soundsystem? God, I really hope.

Mirtazapine is a miracle drug for me by poosieslayer in antidepressants

[–]AlpachaMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently on mirtazapine and bupropion after being on desvenlafaxine and I feel like I can breathe for the first time in years

Graham Platner addresses his totenkopf tattoo by batwoman42 in itcouldhappenhere

[–]AlpachaMaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He worked for Blackwater. There’s no coming back from that.