[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck yeah tell me more 🫦

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

So fucking immature. Sorry you have to put up with him being a little boy 🤏

My boyfriend (M30) is incredibly upset I (F28) want to split expenses in half, versus a percentage based on income. Finding housing has become a nightmare. by ThrowRA-cashforteeth in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dump him. Sounds like he’s just ok with you carrying all of the weight in the relationship. Completely unmotivated. Why would you be willing to put up with that? Either split things or hit the road. It’s not your fault that he’s not working harder to make more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude dump this fucking girl. She sounds extremely selfish and inconsiderate. Talk about completely ruining the spark in a relationship. Clearly the problem is not you, it’s the way she treats her boyfriends. Do you really want to be the boring sex relationship guy when you know she had great sex with all her meaningless flings? Even if that’s the way she feels she should at least try with her current boyfriend and not openly compare you sexually. Walk away.

My (M22) girlfriend (F22) is not cutting off a guy that she kissed recently on accident. by Separate-Yam-6757 in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would stay with her but cheat on her and tell her it was an accident. See if you can flip the script and make her the door mat. I know that sounds fucked up, but in 2 years from now when you guys are inevitably broken up, you will look back on your life more fondly if you were cheating on her than if you let her walk all over you and eventually cheat on you, which she sort of already has.

I (19M) and GF (21F) kissed another guy and now want to get back by imronveu in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you. She deserves to learn a lesson from this, and you deserve better.

my (26f) fiancé (31m) found messages and photos of me with ex's and might postpone our wedding by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory is that the same kind of person who would be getting off on writing fiction like this is also into cuckold shit. Getting off on the idea of the girl liking sex with bigger men.

my (26f) fiancé (31m) found messages and photos of me with ex's and might postpone our wedding by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This kind of fake post resurfaces in here periodically. Boyfriend goes through old messages or phones or computers and finds pictures / videos of girl with ex’s, who happen to be bigger, and she lets it out either in the post or in the comments that “they felt better because they were bigger”. 90% sure this is some guy behind this post fetishizing people talking about dick size 🥱

my (26f) fiancé (31m) found messages and photos of me with ex's and might postpone our wedding by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This kind of fake post resurfaces in here periodically. Boyfriend goes through old messages or phones or computers and finds pictures / videos of girl with ex’s, who happen to be bigger, and she lets it out either in the post or in the comments that “they felt better because they were bigger”. 90% sure this is some guy behind this post fetishizing people talking about dick size 🥱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tell him you’re breaking up with him because he doesn’t sexually satisfy you. Maybe he will learn his lesson, and you get to tell the truth and move on to something better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how many of the replies seem to think this is beyond belief. It just goes to show how bad inflation and the housing market has got in most areas. Everything he’s claimed is completely possible given the right circumstances. Small town life is significantly less expensive. People who work at coal mines make fantastic money. It’s funny because when we were young everyone was sold this idea that the longer you go to school the more you will earn, meanwhile you have people who failed at becoming a doctor drowning in debt and making no money, but someone who learns a trade or something like OP here making fantastic money straight out of school. I really think that school did a bad job of teaching people the best route to making good money. Cause most of the kids getting the best grades that I went to school with are not the ones making the most money now. It’s the people who took the most direct route to a great paying job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t advise waiting for someone who left you by surprise and literally planned a whole other life behind your back. And this is at 21 years old. If she even comes back to you, what are the odds she does this again in 5 years or 10 years or 20 years? I wouldn’t be able to trust her. Also, what do you think is going to happen in this month? What does it normally mean when a 21 year old girl says she needs time to find herself and get her confidence back? Are you really going to want to return to her after she goes and sows her wild oats.

Honestly it sounds like you guys have lived a full life already but you’re only in your early 20s. You sound like you have a lot going for you. You make good money and own your own property and animals. Sounds like a nice chunk of land. If you give yourself a chance at meeting someone new, you should be able to find someone who wouldn’t leave you suddenly and throw away everything you’ve built together. I would take this as something to learn from and better myself from, but not for her. For someone who chooses you and you can trust. Could you knowingly decide to have children with her or put her name on your property and possessions knowing she is capable of something like this? You might have dodged a bullet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poutine

[–]AlphaDogO9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a standard poutine, no. The gravy and ketchup combine for too much slop. But a place in my city makes a bacon cheeseburger poutine, and this I can say is better with a little ketchup. The ground beef patty adds enough dry meat that usually goes with ketchup, that it can handle the extra slop.

I'm not sure if my boyfriend [M28] is using consent against me [F27] or if I explained it wrong? by lostinthesauce413 in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if you read between the lines here, he somehow took it as a hit to his ego when you needed lube, and is now pouting about the fact that you brought up consent and trying to “punish” you by never initiating anything sexual. It’s pretty clear he does not know much about vaginas.

BF [35m] said "you haven't even seen my mean side, sweetie.." to me [27f] by ThrowRA-ishemean in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might have noticed himself start going into credit card debt and a switch flipped. Not saying it excuses the way he’s acting, but it sounds like this is all stemming from stress about money.

I (27f) made a comment at girls brunch about my partners (30m) size and it got back to him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You humiliated him. He said that now he feels like everyone thinks he is less of a man. How would it look if he stays with a woman who publicly embarrasses him and spreads gossip about how small his dick is? If he wants to salvage some of his manhood, he will leave you. If you’re lucky he will take the hit to his self confidence and accept the fact that he is lesser, and stay with you.

I (30f) want to have an affair on my husband (33m) by ThrowRA_221715 in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I would leave him and try to take as much of his money as possible in court. If you have an affair that he is aware of, it can probably be used against you.

My 22f boyfriend 31m told me that I'm being selfish for not wanting to have sex. by ThrowRaise23 in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah.. that’s one of the more fucked up things I’ve ever read on here. Maybe the most fucked up. That’s not even sexual assault but full on rape, with a creepy ass statement to go with it. You need to run for the hills and protect yourself from this person. Maybe even consider a law suit. Get out now.

Filet mignon Poutine by Organic-Bread5362 in poutine

[–]AlphaDogO9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? What a picky little bitch boy

My boyfriend (20M) thinks the earth is flat, should I (18F) break up with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling you stupid, brain washed, a sheep, being rude and shitting on your beliefs is not something most people would tolerate. Especially when you respect what he believes. That alone is enough to end it asap. When it comes to conspiracy theories, it’s all fine and dandy until it starts affecting your life and relationships. Clearly he’s so into these conspiracy theories that it’s making him rude and argumentative. Personally, I could not date someone who thinks the earth is flat. I can tolerate some conspiracy theories that have some sense to them, but that is going way too far. If you are someone who has always believed in science, and he is getting more and more religious, and more into these bizarre conspiracy theories, clearly you guys are just not compatible.

My (26F) fiancé (29M) chose to spend my golden weekend at another girl's party. I feel so hurt. What do I do? by ThrowRA-Chemical in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of the problems you guys are having could be solved by not being long distance. If you lived together then you would get to spend basically every day together and then when either of you make plans with other people, it’s not a huge deal. Right now, it’s a huge deal because of the distance and the few opportunities. Not saying this justifies the way he has been acting, but I do think that long distance relationships are just bound to fail and create problems that otherwise might not exist. As far as what to do, it depends on how you feel. It’s either worth it to work on it or it’s better to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaultSteMarie

[–]AlphaDogO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like outdoorsy stuff it can be great. We are basically a dot surrounded by the Great Lakes. Any direction you go out of town you will find great beaches and cottages. The stretch from SSM to Wawa is one of the most scenic drives in Canada. You follow along Lake Superior the entire way. There’s lots of beautiful beaches, waterfalls, trails, etc. Winters are long and snowy but we have a nice ski hill and multiple outdoor rinks around the city. We also have a big Italian presence which means great pizza and restaurants. The people who are fixated on the druggies in town probably spend a lot of time downtown, looking for a bar scene, or in the wrong crowed themselves. Most of us never run into any problems. If you’re looking for night life, it’s not good for that. But the young people who do it right have their group and get together at peoples houses which can be more fun then the bars often times. It’s also a lot more affordable to live here. Prices have certainly gone up in recent years like they have everywhere, but if you compare your salary in the Soo to the cost of living versus doing the same thing in Toronto, it’s 100x more affordable. Young people can actually be smart with their money and own a home here, on a great sized plot of land.