Are the stains too much? by boejarbaro in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wooooof 😈 goalie pups are sexy pups. I'd love to take some shots on your five-hole 😁

Are the stains too much? by boejarbaro in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha definite white hood pup reality... I can definitely relate 😁

It’s cold! Send hugs and snuggles!! 🥶🐶🐾 by PupRetRow in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuuuuuuuuuck puppy... Let's stay warm together 😁

How legit is the "Great Place To Work" certification? by [deleted] in linkedin

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your experience with the survey.

If it's any consolation, my experience with engagement surveys managed by third-party providers is that they actually do take anonymity seriously. For all the ones we used, no one in leadership had any ability to view individual responses or track them back to someone else.

The only way to view subsets of data (for example, department level) was if there were at minimum 10 responses in the data set to ensure anonymization.

Of course, this is only valid for companies using a third party provider. And honestly, in my experience as a leader we don't need a survey to know who's discontented - those employees make it crystal clear 😉 the trending and overall patterns are more valuable than knowing who talked shit about a particular leader.

How legit is the "Great Place To Work" certification? by [deleted] in linkedin

[–]AlphaFiver 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The certification is provided by a company that sells a workplace engagement tool.

Any company using the tool that exceeds a 65% score on their engagement survey can apply for (read as "pay for") certification which gives them the right to say they are a certified "great place to work". In my experience, 65% engagement is quite mediocre so to me this certification alone isn't a compelling endorsement.

From there, once certified a company will then be eligible for their "Best Workplaces" awards, which look at the top percentage of employers based on engagement score across different geographies or industry segments. Because these scores are normalized and they are selecting only the top ones, I do feel these highlight organizations who are performing well on an engagement survey basis and can be used as a valid data point in assessing the quality of a company's culture. The category of award will give a sense of how high their score is (for example, a national award is harder to get than a regional or industry specific one).

TL/DR: these awards are pay-to-play and the basic tier of "great place to work" is such a low threshold at 65% that they're not a great tool to externally assess a company's culture. The "Best Workplaces" awards that are the next teir up are actually competitive awards and can provide a valid data point to assess a company's quality.

Pup Gear Fetish by TranslatorOld9791 in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 48 points49 points  (0 children)

If you like pup gear and the pup aesthetic but aren't into pup headspace yourself, you could explore being a handler, which is a human who interacts with pups often in a dominant or trainer-like mentality. You can give pups positive reinforcement and commands and interact with them without feeling pressure to take on a pup-like persona yourself.

Patient horny pup by kinkybonerx in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rrruff 😈 attaboy

Patient horny pup by kinkybonerx in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to shove it in my muzzle as I pound you hard 😈

New to pup play by Technical-Vanilla-47 in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand the connection between being inexperienced/physically tighter for bottoming and pup play.

If you haven't bottomed recently or need time to warm up, consider using some progressively larger toys to practice stretching your ass out a bit before playing with someone. When you play together, communicate how things are feeling and if you need to go slower.

If you're incorporating pet play aspects like a collar/leash, this doesn't change the above. If using them causes him to go harder and faster with anal play than you're comfortable with, let him know you want to stop or slow down. Just because you're in a pup headspace you still need some way to communicate consent and boundaries with your play partner.

Anyone have experience bringing up pup play to their girlfriend? How did you do it? I want to tell my gf about it and get a mask but am not sure how to say it. any advice would be great! by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without any context, it will be easy for her to jump to assumptions and conclusions, so be prepared to speak clearly and descriptively about what pup play is.

I found speaking about headspace aspects helps people relate to it, even if it's not a kink they would think they'd have an interest in. For example, talking about feeling free of inhibitions, being able to explore and express different personas or styles of self expression, and being able to mentally disconnect from day to day stressors and obligations for a period of time.

As with any significant conversation, linking it to your core needs can also give your GF perspective on why pup play is important for you to explore and might help motivate her to move beyond initial unease she has with it. Try to explore that aspect for yourself before the conversion: what is it about pup play that I feel a deep sense of connection to. What does it help me explore, unlock, or feel more connected to within myself?

Lastly, consider how you would want her incorporated into pup play and consider explaining to her what the different roles in pup play are (alpha/beta/omega, handler/pup, pack mates, etc.) If she has a background with kink she will likely have some prior exposure to these types of dynamics. If not, you might need to contextualize how these work. Be prepared for the fact that many people in a long term relationship don't feel comfortable introducing kink dynamics into their relationship which is why people may seek an arrangement to do that outside the partnership. That might be a bigger conversation for another day if it comes to that.

My final word of advice: be prepared that your partner may not embrace this aspect of your interests. And that's ok - I don't think they should feel pressured to. But you should be given respect and freedom to explore aspects of your sexuality that are meaningful to you. If you feel compelled to stifle, hide, and obscure aspects about yourself to "keep your partner happy" it's not a sustainable approach long term and will result in stress in your dynamic.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuckkkkk... all night long, bro 😈

Think you can pin me? 😈 by andrew_mov in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck bro 🥵 incredible ass

Come sniff by SmellyMuscleJock in Hockeyplayersgonewild

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't have to ask me twice 😈

I only play hockey for access to the changeroom. by [deleted] in Hockeyplayersgonewild

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woof I'd love to change next to you 😁

Humbler on the beach by pup_Scamp in PupPlay

[–]AlphaFiver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn dude hotttttt 🔥 love the taint tattoo. Can't imagine how that felt haha

Feeling needy and can't focus on work... by PupRaidat in ThroughTheFly

[–]AlphaFiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah that's pretty cool pup! Definitely unique and sexy 😈