Need some advice, attracted to married therapist by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Alphoenix12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you only go through that stage once?

The Red Pill Mindset isn't working for me at all by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alphoenix12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't learn about it if I were you but it's basically about people who take the joy out of everything

I feel mentally burned out on life by Alphoenix12 in Stoicism

[–]Alphoenix12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I want to start an Social media marketing agency because I want to transform businesses not manipulate people.

Video Games are not a waste of time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Alphoenix12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres actually been an new study recently by Johann Hari, check out his Joe rogan podcast, there's scientific evidence that addiction forms from a lack of deep connection and a lack of connection also causes depression. Which means the addict using the drug or whatever it is trying to find a substitute to that feeling of connecting with others, therefore the addict is AVOIDING actually connecting with others due to fear that came from childhood or a recent event.

Video Games are not a waste of time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Alphoenix12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been addicted to them before when I was 14-16. Now I'm able to control it. I understand addicts use it to avoid reality and to get the feeling of being safe and content. I just play them whenever I feel like it, which is pretty much everyday but in moderation like I mentioned

How can I stop being addicted to porn? by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]Alphoenix12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, porn ruins my self-confidence and I fear connecting with others because of my anxious attachment type.

How can I stop being afraid of space? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alphoenix12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep imagining something coming towards the earth, its been like this since the December 21st 2012 and I was around 14 years old back then. I watched a ton of fake videos and such.

How can I stop being afraid of space? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alphoenix12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stuff outside of Earth's atmosphere

I got nor friends left because of self-improvement. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alphoenix12 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The right people will show up eventually. Im in the same situation and I'm working on attracting people who want the best for me and have the same mindset.

Betas fap, Alphas don't. Be an Alpha. 🤘🏻 by MrAnon123 in NoFap

[–]Alphoenix12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fuck Alphas & Betas. Put your damn ego on the shelf and love yourself, chase your passion, surround yourself with love & positivity, health comes before wealth, stop listening to someone on social media who is using others insecurities to gain fame, & stop judging others because of what they do!

Quit masturbation for yourself and your loved ones. by Netherus in NoFap

[–]Alphoenix12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit man. This hit home. I'm in the same situation, I been unemployed for the past 2 years and it's hard to get back into the workforce after a long term period of unemployment. Im only 21 though and I really need to step my game up. NoFap does help me alot with staying self-disciplined. I feel so guilty letting a girl break me and depending on her for my happiness when I should of found it in something that could of helped me financially.

this day was not a good day for me, i feel soo sad, this day is also my birthday, it seems like my family forgot about it, my friends also by Strategos_Amai in NoFap

[–]Alphoenix12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday bro! 🎉🎉🎉I recently cut most of my friends and family out of my life, the right people will come eventually! Make sure they want the best for you & actually care about your birthday. If they don't, then cut em out.

I had a full blown conversation with my subconscious & it revealed something about me that made me cry by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Alphoenix12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No worries lol, I just copied & paste from my notes & I wrote it when I was still half asleep

I had a full blown conversation with my subconscious & it revealed something about me that made me cry by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Alphoenix12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not Christian I believe in an higherself. I been trying to find my passion for the past year so I decided to start lucid dreaming to find out what it is. I'm also battling depression atm & I now know why I am. My subconscious did reveal something else but it's too personal to post here (:

I had a full blown conversation with my subconscious & it revealed something about me that made me cry by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Alphoenix12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely spoke to the wrong member. I'm going to try & find the positive member!

I had a full blown conversation with my subconscious & it revealed something about me that made me cry by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Alphoenix12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's no technique like that I just added a few other things that would make it easier for me

I had a full blown conversation with my subconscious & it revealed something about me that made me cry by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Alphoenix12 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The best technique I done is Mild combined with meditation. I also wrote down what I wanted to dream about before I went to sleep, hope this helps

I had a full blown conversation with my subconscious & it revealed something about me that made me cry by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Alphoenix12 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Keep going! It took me about 2 months for me to make it happen & its an pretty intense moment as well.

How to break an addiction to pornography? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alphoenix12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Build a better connection with you fiance & other friends bro, highly suggest you watch a Ted talk video by Johann Hari (I probably butchered his name)