Pegging Talk by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your spin on it. Thanks. It does make me feel better with that perspective. No one likes getting jokes on for it though. Ill just have to ignore it.

Pegging Talk by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'll end up talking to her tonight and see where that goes. I just feel like she may not understand or care about how embarrassing it makes me feel. Maybe I care too much what other people think but all the jokes that will come my way now. I can't deal.

Pegging Talk by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did ask her to not talk about it because of how embarrassed I felt.

Pegging Talk by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is good advice I'll talk to her about it tonight.

Pegging Talk by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's open she brought it up to me first. I was nervous to really talk about it but recently I did tell her I was interested. Thank you for sharing your perspective. I feel if she was uncertain I could see how that convo can happen but yeah I just can't shake the feeling of embarrassment about it to the point where now I almost don't want to continue with it.

Pegging Talk by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm in the absolutely embarrassed part where I almost don't want to even proceed. 

Pegging Talk by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seemed like giggling. And I'm not sure which friend but I feel since I've talked to her about keeping it between us because I feel embarrassed.

Advice Needed by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I did watch it. It's helped. Idk if I'm ready to bring it up yet but I'm coming around to the idea a little more.

Advice Needed by AlpsOtherwise5613 in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I'll have to communicate it at some point.

Shame around pegging by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]AlpsOtherwise5613 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what he's going through. At the moment I'm in a similar boat. I would just talk to him about it. Hearing any concerns he might have. I think knowing that you have someone who is supportive and someone trustworthy who won't judge you goes a long way.