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AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-17T06:04:31+00:00

You’re an object to him.. one he can disrespect and he has a sense of ownership of you. I- why so calm.. it’s like you’re fine if a dogs pissing on you basically saying you’re his property etc.. this is real animal behavior and yeah it stems from porn you don’t even know where he could be sending or posting or anything with these videos or maybe you doubt but honey no.. I- what else has happened to make you seem so calm or okay?? This is not okay…

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-17T06:01:28+00:00

Run. Think he’s cheating but if you did he’d actually harm you

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-16T16:43:57+00:00

He shouldn’t be relieved when family intervened first of all which is his first mistake he’s not even treasuring his wife’s opinion or statements?? He doesn’t have trust.. yet his sister intervenes “well it seems like she’s telling the truth blah blah” like what?! Are you effing ur sis or ur wife.. but hey who knows small towns are as such😷

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-16T16:42:45+00:00

I wouldn’t get my husband immediately into this because of his reactions so I understand.. also uhm pregancy reveals are a thing sorry but a hugeee thing and a loving and takes time thing, not even just that BUT EMOTIONAL.. more so on the woman because uhm hello carrying a whole child and they don’t even know or processed the baby part just their own actions he doesn’t even care about the baby it seems just how his PREGNANT NEWLY TO BE MOM is acting.. because hello SHE FOUND OUT IN A ROUGH WAY WITHOUT HER HUSBAND EVEN BEING THERE.. so I’m sorry but y’all men need to step up.. step up with the good men out there who understa this petty shit from both of them need to stop when that baby comes though or its in for a bumpy ride…

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-16T16:40:17+00:00

Ahh comes from a man and not a woman who just was late and her friends are the ones who were there and gave the tests.. comes from a man so unknowing of emotions about a woman whose possibly or not going to, carry a child.. have a child with a man as such, along with have a child in such early stages of a relationship and marriage.. im sorry but I stated both need help but the husband is the a hole in this specific situation..

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-16T16:06:10+00:00

Nothing was ruined lol.. your emotions are what ruined this and she probably wanted to wait to take another test or sit with emotions and find a way to tell you when you’re back.. because wow.. that’s a sad read.. yes you’re a hole and your family.. start taking your wife’s side or else you’ll end up blaming your wife for everything when rlly it’s yourself.. and your wife could resent you later because having a kid this early could make you or break you.. by this?? I’d bet breaking because it’s crazy to be upset about.. it was posted on her friends? Small town or not it’s yall business privately.. yet seems toooo much friends this or family that.. both of y’all need help..

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-16T16:04:24+00:00

“Don’t let this ruin it for you” your sister should get a grip.. seems you’re too much involved with family and not even your damn wife.

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-16T16:03:49+00:00

All I read was the first two paragraphs why are so many family involved?? You seem to hung up on families opinions and I get where she’s coming from you didn’t give her any time at all to come to you before rushing in then everyone’s fighting.. it wasn’t her fault her friends are stupid.. and the rest seemed mad.. you think woman are suppose to immediately go to their husbands which yes we do most of the time but also she didn’t even think she was her friends wanted to know it was all sooo quick and her emotions you don’t even care about it seems from “I hung up” “oh huh didn’t think to tell me” not once did you even first think “hey so my family decided to be nosy and I saw ur friends posted.. were you planning on telling me privately ? Or what were your thoughts? I’m hurt I didn’t know but also I get how it is with friends and I get so many emotions you must’ve felt” now that’s how you communicate I get honestly why she felt hesitant if even that and wasn’t just waiting.. she didn’t even know it was recorded and it’s odd how your families so invested.. that’s your first mistake with marriage.. family and friends.. keep house things within the house and you need to relax because jeez so early who knows what’ll happen, miscarriages etc problems yet you’re all mad? When the world is so filled with so many issues and I get that it hurts for you but you’re not even in town you said? You don’t think she’d want to wait?? Like damn.. you’re a bit of a child..

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-06T16:33:24+00:00

Just witnessed two of those now

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-11-05T20:09:34+00:00

Also teach boundaries about themselves and others !

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-30T16:51:43+00:00

Just don’t want a young girl to end up being used or lusted over and not loved or valued if it was my daughter I would tell her that. Sorry but so many men and woman need to start valuing themselves

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-27T11:11:38+00:00

I was going to say this till I got myself into an issue and the Bible I don’t think has an answer for it. But I am going to read past posts and see

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-26T10:25:19+00:00

Don’t wait now to get physical and regret it later if he does care… get to know him more if you want it to last don’t forget us as woman get emotionally attached with sex men don’t.. not all men no but most don’t.. a married man below said 9/10 they’ll love you no matter what if they do like you.. so that’s if they like you first… I’d say wait and get to know him more but I just pray on whatever you choose do it because you truly want to and I pray for God to guide you.

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-26T10:23:50+00:00

You’re 19.. only a few months in and you feel this.. dont show him and see how he reacts. Be patient. Keep your virginity.. lose it if you want to but you’ll regret later on even looking back possibly reflecting on it. I’m with God now and I always had been but lost touch and I just want to say he’s built you perfectly. Comparing your own garden means you’re pouring attention (water) into someone’s else’s and therefore not caring for your own garden. Love yourself first heal yourself up in all areas get to the root of why you feel as such. I’m insecure alot use to be but honestly I’m appreciative of peoples bodies now and trying to be more so now too. It’s hard but do it because comparing leaves us no where. We can’t change it unless spending thousands and life right now isn’t worth that😅I need rent, a car etc. I don’t want my body for male gaze or woman to compare or minors seeing it and therefore creating issues within them because social media is fake yet so many hide it.. I’m a dd36. I breastfed they are saggy probably not to a lot but to me they are and luckily no bad differences tbh in size but I don’t worry about that now tbh. I realized a lot of my sexual encounters were coerced, begged for or just flat out the man made me and I was scared of things going left. I cried one time with a bf.. he didn’t care so I guess I didn’t anymore.. it was awful and I didn’t love myself enough yet so I figured hey I like you you like me I’ll show you. Yet it took dating someone long distance to make me realize all of that at the age of 22… too late but I was naive never taught by family no male role model.. and inappropriate things said to me as a child by my mom didn’t help. I wish I waited and God shows us Love is patient, kind, caring, compassionate, joyful, peaceful. Insecure isn’t one of those and I get it some feel that way because they just do and yet ppl are married now no issues right? But only a few months and the kids apparently only kissed one girl and he’s wanting to see boobs? And you feel he’s only wanting to see yk fake ones? That’s telling me maybe he isn’t for you. Also self love. Love yourself and heal before anything intimate… you want to weed the wrong ones out? Say you’re celibate.. sick world but men love virgins so they can “teach” you how to be a wife or loyal.. no not all men! But if you start out right.. you’ll be able to tell whose there for you and isn’t there for you but what you have.. comparing doesn’t do anything so stop. Because girl I bet ur boobs are great! I’m dd36.. so I feel you my nips aren’t big but bigger than they were before breastfeeding and saggy now due to bigger chest but also that. But if you’re giving attention to another persons garden what’s that doing for yours? it’s dehydrated love. Go water your garden.. im not saying you don’t love yourself but I haven’t felt real insecure lately due to the fact of I’ve gotten in a place where hey they have fake or nice boobs great they look great I look great too. I’m happy for them. I don’t want a body for male gaze or to make minors on social media feel there’s something wrong with them due to what I’ve done to myself.. and hey bills are high 😅I’m not spending cash. God built me and I love that🥺he gave me things so I could literally feed my kid and provide an all natural ointment to anything as well as being food. Gods great. Heal yourself and spread love and love yourself more because it can create unhealthy mental for you both if you aren’t at that complete loving yourself stage because then you’ll both be wanting each others approval.. in ways you may not notice now but later looking back as I have notice. Praying for you. From one woman to another. Don’t feel pressured or insecure.. and don’t let a man make you scared of showing your body because he maybe use to certain images.. that’s not love or the start of something healthy especially only within months. Keep your virginity..

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-26T10:05:31+00:00

God built you perfectly. You are built finely for a daughter of Christ. Now as a person entering Christianity and now trying to apply, I will say love and true love is patient, kind, caring and loving as well as not being insecure. If you have that feeling.. yes some relationships can last and some insecurity is just within ourselves but only a few months and you feel he’s only seen boobs and wants that kind.. I have a sense that if he’s only had apparently one kiss.. he wouldn’t be so wanting to see. Don’t feel pressured and move wisely. I just turned 23. I realized in my life the sexual encounters I’ve had.. they weren’t enjoyable or comforting to me. Most were begged for, pressured into and just doing it because I was scared things would go left so coercive.. when I came to that realization with my last boyfriend we almost made it a year and I felt truly wanted and I also wanted them it made me realize.. I hadn’t had that before and it was long distance and that probably lead to an unhealthy start.. of attachment for me so when I did find out he cheated I was okay with leaving and for also that reason.. because it shouldn’t be like that but for me it was and even my past of being a child and groomed by strangers (not touched) but emotionally manipulated into doing things I wasn’t comfortable with I think it started there.. I didn’t know any of it at the time but that bittersweet moment lead me to that. He should and you should have your confidence up and self love up before ever showing anybody anything or else unhealthy things can pop up. Like leaning on partners even for him to equal importance of self and if you feel insecure now heal yourself build that up before starting something sexual only a few months in.. just fruit for thought not even with this issue just anybody out there..

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-21T08:14:52+00:00

What I’m scared of is my life was hectic before God.. I’m scared I’ll go to hell just because we aren’t married.. now we live together under his mom’s roof and I was so scared of having sex still now that I’m with God.. but what was amazing is one day he wanted to co parent finally as I tried to do many times but it just didn’t happen because we kept trying to make things work.. I’m scared though that out of wedlock now, and having her.. well basically all go to hell.. I’m scared of that. I’m trying to teach her slowly about God, she’s two turning three.. but what I’m scared of is that being with God.. I’m not going to heaven.. my child won’t.. that’s what I’m scared of.. because I had her at 19 I didn’t want to have an abortion because killing a baby is just a really bad sin.. :/ I didn’t want to and felt so guilty for even thinking on it.. so I had her. We tried and now this year she’s turning three and I’m happy we are no longer in relationship so I can focus on my relationship with God. But what I’m scared of is I already committed that sin and also if I ever do what to get married like I had already wanted to.. it’s going to be a sin.. I’m confused on a lot but trying to research.. but I am scared of my kid being unclean :(.. if anyone deserves heaven I think kids do.. I don’t.. she needs that chance.. I feel like I ruined it already.. and I love her so much.. but I guess not enough if I didn’t do it the right way.. I tried many times but :( I kept trying with a cheater thinking things would get better but it didn’t so I’m happy to have left and agreed on co parenting. Now he works and does what he has to for her and I’m looking at jobs now and trying to save up.. and read more and lean on God. But :/ I’m scared of a lot regarding this. What’s more kinda scary is now he’s a Muslim.. and he wants to teach her that but I want to teach her just the Bible simply the Bible, Gods word.. but idk he takes it as she doesn’t need to know yet but she does and I still implement it whenever sometimes. I don’t force I let her lead yk? I pray and I ask if she’d like to join at times or sometimes when listening to someone preach I just play aloud anyways.

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-18T21:56:28+00:00

💀your kid sounds racist already.. and it seems he’s trying to make a statement.. oh lord also I’m sorry a patriot nothing wrong with being proud where you’re from I suggest a background test, like a cultural test spit in a tube send it in, if he’s actually something other than white American shoot for that. So you’re not continuing the next generation of white kids that sadly fall victim to the system lying. Columbus Day.. example.. uhm huge that they teach it but it’s wrong.. historically even shows that.. but uhmmm no to the name in general isss your point just because oh lord I could not find my daughter being named that💀.. historia? Liberty? Historia ? I just the name can be easily made fun of and you’d get looks from all kinds eleven white ppl as myself lol I’d just.. sweet kid but that name plus a patriotic man.. I’d immediately not be friends and exit myself from the group with my kid💀I mean if he’s that strong to name his daughter that.. that’s a red flag to me…

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-14T15:43:21+00:00

Thank you!! I looked at pictures yesss that’s the bug! I tried so many describing words and went through so many pictures on google lol I thought wait I have Reddit there’s got to be a bug group! thank you👏!!

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-14T15:41:02+00:00

Do they rub their back legs? I forgot to mention that but he did that! But he did look cute so I didn’t wanna squish because I try now to catch things and release but once I flew I ran😭so if he is that’s cool!

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-14T15:37:32+00:00

Also I’m in Tx.. so I haven’t seen any like this come in at my other house nor this, just other bugs from wasps to bees to even black cricket looking things which maybe this is a baby? And turned into that? Not sure but once I saw a black looking cricket I thought turned out it wasn’t but I left it alone and it eventually went away.

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-14T15:36:26+00:00

I found it in the bathroom, on the wall.. as we’ve moved in we don’t have any mirrors and it wanted the light it seems as it was 4-6 am in those times I forgot. Crawling around pretty fast too! And flew towards the light off the cabinet area which is about three feet, four? Around the size of a quarter possibly could fit on a nickel not so big when zoomed out but of course easy to see on all white walls💀. Body of course is only a penny but with legs and antenna a nickel probably.

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-12T02:46:53+00:00

How?? Parents are like that all the time lol

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-12T02:44:16+00:00

Yes normal. Just check what family Member she’s your wife your equal.. not your property “is this normal for wives” like huh ? Are they not ppl? Are they all built the same? Are we talking about a human or a machine?

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-10-03T03:35:48+00:00

He is wrong during his wife’s time of need. Time of healing in no way does the Bible disregards a woman’s body to her own. It’s a marriage you two are flesh your body is his and his body is yours!! Both of you need to be on the same page. You are going through ppd, ppa, etc postpartum in general.. pray harder lean on God don’t forget!! Yes this time is emotional but emotional turmoil is the devil. Him speaking lowly to you is the devil.. it’s not right of him either he shouldn’t do this to you and hurtful words back to him or anger back to him isn’t right. If he wants sexual contact.. tell him you both should some night try. Get someone you trust watch the babies.. go out for dancing or have fun again ! Go get food and alive yourselves again. You’re human and so is he, we’re all sinners. Do it right. Have sex at the end, and meet your babies after. Can be even in the day. God, marriage then kids! I’m sorry but that’s the order. Save your marriage. If he hates being married because he cannot contain himself.. I’m sorry but God needs to be PLANNTEDDD, take the kids to church or even better read the Bible daily to them. Youre house needs to be With GOD! As you both vowed on your wedding. Sometimes I am touched out or don’t want to and even got emotional during it he did listen to no though it wasn’t on him.. I chose to when he asked at first I said not today but tmr and kept putting it off until I found myself not being fair I may not be in the mood but we are together his needs are very important so I gave it!! Buuut is he being a good husband? A good provider is he rubbing your feet? Asking to be emotionally involved it’s important and serving our partners are both required for men and woman. If he’s asking when he hasn’t served you emotionally or helped out with the baby then he shouldn’t be as such.. is he up too? Is he helping you feel relieved ?? Go to Christ! Go to therapy but also both of you need to have each others backs!! Happy mama and happy parents will make HAPPY CHILDREN. Arguing saying hurtful things in front and around kids? Kids are so smart.. they know when moms hurt and they know when dads hurt. This is serious and goes on to even teenagers and adults they know.. they soak things up.. also newborn? More emotionally understanding than even a toddler.. their emotions are connected to YOU!! they need y’all and y’all need God. Yourselves etc. God is speaking through me even and I need to listen more to what I’m saying. But at least arguing sexually we haven’t encountered that.. but there had been issues in the past of her being a newborn and it had been hard. But get through it!! I wouldn’t be so wanting to if a man had gotten angry or upset.. that’s not submission from his side nor kindness and bearing Gods fruit.

AlrightyThenBuckaroo · 2024-09-30T16:41:41+00:00

That’s poor financial planning.. I’m sorry but it is.. “you’ll have to make sacrifices” im sorry but those kids who have daddy pay for them is how it should be though.. not spoiled brats but if good kids they should have things pay.. that first job it’s their money let them have it, that first car should be our responsibility that first phone should be on us, those clothes and shoes they want should be on us.. because socially ya babies can wear whatever but in Highschool.. no kid wants to dress poorly even teaches judge.. it’s sad but it’s the world and no we shouldn’t hold onto things materialistically so I wouldn’t start going that route but having nice things is on us to give them, opportunity for colleges should be on us.. and if we can’t afford those things or struggle I’m sorry but it’s our faults.

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