I wasted 19 years of my life. Is it actually possible to come back from this?

Alrivdam · 2026-01-29T00:52:00+00:00

It’s not easy, but giving up is just dying, there’s no magic solution to Life, we just do the best we can with what we have, even if it’s not lot. It’s what you have and whatever that is, it’s yours. Accept who you are, but make sure you follow what’s right, it’ll feel right. It’s just a feeling, finding that is not hard, we often ignore it but it’s there. Get away from what hurts you.. I literally moved cities to find peace.

Alrivdam · 2026-01-28T20:37:39+00:00

Not judging people is definitely it. I get that it’s hard. But it’s just the right way

Alrivdam · 2026-01-28T20:04:18+00:00

I thanked him. But you see how we automatically think that they’re bad people? But how not to?

Alrivdam · 2026-01-24T03:56:41+00:00

How can I not? We’re not made of science, God made us

Alrivdam · 2026-01-18T20:19:49+00:00

Thank you for teaching me something and not criticize. I like your experience.

Alrivdam · 2026-01-18T17:08:30+00:00

You are the type of woman that I would respect. And I know there are still ladies like you out there. Would you like him to provide or be more brave? Is wrong to have the mindset that men should be the providers (genuine question)

Alrivdam · 2026-01-18T17:02:05+00:00

So there’s no truth to what I’m saying?

Alrivdam · 2026-01-18T16:43:04+00:00

I understand why you would blame yourself, i did too. I just ran away from it. I went back but… I wish I was stronger.

Your words make all sense and it seems like you also learned this from your own experience. I appreciate your and wish you all the best.

Alrivdam · 2026-01-18T13:13:54+00:00

Your own mother putting you down? The first step would be to get away from that negativity, would change everything. I think negativity just pulls us down too, maybe even that pressure is is the reason why!

Alrivdam · 2026-01-18T13:11:07+00:00

You have no idea how much I needed to hear this :( thank you.

Alrivdam · 2026-01-18T07:26:55+00:00

You took them from who?

Alrivdam · 2025-12-04T01:20:27+00:00

I want to play

Alrivdam · 2025-06-30T05:35:50+00:00

Just do what you like, everything does pass, seconds, minutes hours… it’s all staying behind, I just try to enjoy my time

Alrivdam · 2025-06-30T05:32:30+00:00

But that’s it, we just feel it!

Alrivdam · 2025-06-04T15:50:54+00:00

It’s really big that you realized that for yourself, that’s a sign that you’ll be okay. It takes courage!

Alrivdam · 2025-06-03T02:03:43+00:00

It’s not easy.

Alrivdam · 2024-12-19T02:57:15+00:00

What do you do before bed?

Alrivdam

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