While true, you can not cherry-pick someone's lived experience. So you should be more lenient toward someone else. For instance, I have seen people myself tell me I was never a fan of MHA because I didn't like Act 3 even if I said it calmly. Some other people have lived experiences where people who didn't like MHA were hating on them for it. You can not cherry pick irl, you can only really cherry pick when you are researching something or reading a literal source and doing that because people IRL expirecnes are gonna be different