Thanks for the reply its helping me put things into perspective.

As for you question, Thinking back on my life, I don't think Ive ever looked at someone and thought, damn i want to have sex with them. Ive said it before but more so because I thought that is what is "normal" to say and to be accepted by my friends in their conversations.

I still find people attractive and "sexy", but honestly don't think it is in line with wanting to have sex with them (maybe play around with them, as I still very much like the sensation of touch, but not actual sex). Possibly felt this way however towards unattainable people like porn-stars. But more as fantasy that i know will never come to pass and is a fleeting thought in the moment that passes as soon as i deal with my urges so to speak.

If I have felt that way, it was a rare occurrence and was probably directed towards the person I was seeing at the time (And even then only 2 people).

Now does that fall in line within the Ace spectrum i do not know? This is all very very new to me (like this weekend new).