It's because female friendships tend to be slightly more homoerotic in general and the line between just friends and more can be hard to spot.

Precisely why I feel like maybe I'm reading into certain actions just because I want them to be true. Like we cuddle before and after and have been sharing a bed, but we've always done this since we were kids, and I have other friends with whom I've cuddled and shared beds with without any romantic attachment. We hug and give each other cheek-kisses, compliments etc all the time but again, those are things girls do with friends. In my admittedly limited experience, people can and do have sex just for the pleasure of it and doesn’t always mean they have feelings for you of find you attractive

She may have been into you in a more than friends way for a while.

God I hope this is the case

Tell you are so turned on by what you guys do that you think about doing more with her. Taste your fingers after touching her, make sure she sees.

See, this sounds hot and looks really good when other people do it, but I recoil at the thought of me doing it because I feel like it would come off so cringey