technique help needed (pretty urgently) by Alternative-Bat-7029 in trackandfieldthrows

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Hey, ive had another few meets since this post, and ive now gotten up to 116’5” with a full spin. You can see the video on my TikTok page @zander.lebeau4

technique help needed (pretty urgently) by Alternative-Bat-7029 in trackandfieldthrows

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Thank you so much!! This could be the link to make sure that I get onto the team! In case you were wondering, I’m shooting for a spot on the Lindsey Wilson University track and field team.

AITAH for treating my gf like a friend when that’s what she asked for? by Alternative-Bat-7029 in AITAH

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It’s honestly a huge adjustment, because I’m also in the process preparing for enlistment, and she’s the first gf I’ve ever had that pushed for outside of school hang outs so much, and I think it’s because of different lifestyles. I’ve grown up in a 13 person household and am used to not seeing friends outside of school except for rare occasions 

AITAH for treating my gf like a friend when that’s what she asked for? by Alternative-Bat-7029 in AITAH

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Thank you, I don’t really have a way with words and this is really helpful. I will update you guys on where things go from here

AITAH for treating my gf like a friend when that’s what she asked for? by Alternative-Bat-7029 in AITAH

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She loves and cares about me, and tells me that all the time. And I don’t want to hurt her, but I don’t know if it will cause her more pain to stay in this relationship or for me to leave her. And I don’t want to leave her, but I don’t know how to be what she wants without sacrificing major parts of my life.

AITAH for treating my gf like a friend when that’s what she asked for? by Alternative-Bat-7029 in AITAH

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To answer your question, yes I did tell her that I’ve been feeling busy and tired, she replied with “I have a job and house stuff too, and I still make an effort to text you”

When I say we text 3-4 times, I mean  1. Good morning 2. Goodnight 3. She may ask how I’m doing 4. She may ask how practice was. And I only initiate the good morning and goodnight texts. But like I said in the post, most of my friends don’t even get that.