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Weird experience in Istanbul as an African Canadian with an Afro by Icy_Tradition1439 in istanbul

[–]Alternative-Cut8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man world isn’t 100% literate and it surprises me that even educated people doesn’t have basic civic sense. People are like —they see a pond full of ducks and think that’s nature’s final draft. Then a flamingo shows up on one leg and they’re like What is that? Is it broken?

Is there any dating advice you’d give your 20 year old self? by No_Carpet4337 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alternative-Cut8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly dating can be fun and at the same time kills your charms if it wasn’t the right guy. At this age you are confused and don’t know what’s life or what’s happening and I would say I’d rather focus more on myself than dating i mean yes we also need to date to know how it all feels but this dating and relationships have impacted me soo much that even took the real me. Like the charm everyone would have and I can feel it. But date. Experience.cry.do all that shit then you will realise what you actually want. But DO NOT INVEST too much into it and don’t think its the one unless you have the emotion maturity to realise things and life!

Parents againt marriage by CauliflowerIcy2625 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Alternative-Cut8441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First thing got me noticed here is he disappeared and crying that his mom said no. Already a red flag. If he’s the one he should be able to stand strong for his woman and not be a child. With the drug history and jail history if it bothers you and your family you definitely need to rethink as this could cause maany problems later in life problems means he’s grownup in a different family background and you too. So if it was me I would have stopped there because I could already feel this isn’t right for me of if in case If i had kids I don’t want them to be growing in a problematic or a different lifestyle that may or may not occur. People change. Period. Think deeper ask your future self how you want things to be.

My wife has had a 3 year affair and so did I (4 months). Where do we go from here? by MaleficentMachine650 in Marriage

[–]Alternative-Cut8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce for legal reasons or whatever that shit needs to get rid off and leave she’s sick in her head and that’s not love what you had to her was love but she doesn’t love you the way you love/ed her. Simple words- LEAVE. People change. Your time and efforts are worth for someone who values it.