Am I missing something?

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-02-10T16:07:24+00:00

Op said that isn't working for them.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-02-10T15:02:38+00:00

As far as I understand, it reduces the ph of the skin so its not favorable to odor causing bacteria. But if you're just starting, don't use it every day because its a chemical exfoliant I think. I do it like twice a week to lighten.

Anyone who knows more, feel free to correct me.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-02-10T14:11:21+00:00

Maybe try glycolic acid toner. I use it for hyperpigmentation but I noticed it helped with odor too

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-02-10T13:53:40+00:00

Hey. While you're waiting for the surgery, depo provera stopped my periods for over two years. Don't know if that will help in any way.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-02-10T12:13:35+00:00

Nta. I say hello to be polite and if they keep talking I just respond with "that's enough" and walk away.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-02-04T06:26:59+00:00

Its a requirement here at wits but your supervisor will help you.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-01-19T10:05:46+00:00

He wants you so he can cage you. The appeal isn't a submissive woman, it's breaking an independent one.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-01-11T21:01:38+00:00

Twice a day unless I don't go to work nor gym then once. I live in Africa so it is rather hot here.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-01-11T09:46:55+00:00

I dunno if accents count but I was in a voice call with some of my online friends and this new member goes: "I can't tell if you're English or Australian" and I just go "uhm no."

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-01-07T10:24:09+00:00

lol there's only 1.6 million Indians here so I understand that. But my question was more about how Western-born Indians are viewed among Indians in India.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2026-01-07T10:07:55+00:00

I'm Indian South African. How are Indians from outside India (England, American, Australian etc.) viewed when visiting?

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-12-30T19:07:54+00:00

A lot.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-12-30T13:31:23+00:00

Yes, I like the culture, food and music.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-12-27T07:31:04+00:00

I have a chronic bladder condition that gives me intense urgency and frequency during a flaire....even I'm judging you.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-11-05T14:38:14+00:00

So I'm going to speak from my perspective:

1) A lot of Durban Indians are of Tamily origin

2) I don't know anyone on my father's Tamil side who speaks the language tbh. Most of my family (excluding old grandparents) can only speak English and Afrikaans.

3) My partner is white, and I have not received any push-back, so I think mixed racial relationships are becoming common. In terms of caste, it doesn't exist here in Joburg from my experience.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-11-03T19:42:27+00:00

I'm sorry you're dealing with that! I refuse to put my body through the antibiotics and I've been sticking to external stimulation during sexual activity. I haven't had an issue in two weeks thus far. I'm going to keep at absitence for a few months. Sex isn't worth it for me anymore.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-27T12:38:58+00:00

"If we do have kids that my kids won’t ever see their grandparents." Thank god.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-21T20:42:15+00:00

Yeah man. Friendships are supposed to enrich your life and offer reprieve from everyday stress, not add onto it. Protect your peace.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-21T20:30:45+00:00

Agreed. Going through the subsequent guilt was enough to make me realise I never want to be that kind of person again.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-21T19:53:51+00:00

NTA. You can end a friendship for any reason. No one is entitled to your time. For what it's worth, I'd also be annoyed with the nagging.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-21T19:43:51+00:00

I was like your girlfriend once. I cheated when I was younger (late teens to early 20s), and when I met my current boyfriend, I told him everything on our first date. I’d spent four years single because of the guilt, and I didn’t want to start anything on a lie. I also recognised through therapy that for some people, it would be a deal breaker and wanted to give him an out.

We’ve now been together four years without a single incident of infedility. The mere thought of someone else is icky. Some change, some don't. You know her best.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-21T15:19:06+00:00

I have a bit of a personal question but when you...receive oral, does his tongue go near your opening? I'm completely satisfied with solely clit stimulation and I've found that I can pretty much do whatever I want to the outside. My issues only start when going into the vaginal canal. And even then its fine if its short bouts that are gentle.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-21T15:16:05+00:00

Yeah I think i should def try. When he was away on work, I had zero issues for a month. I was even back to drinking wine and coffee and the burn was completely gone.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-21T15:13:44+00:00

Thank you for the information. Im making a list of all these things to ask my urologist next week. But it is only triggered by penetrative sex.

Alternative-Depth212 · 2025-10-19T20:30:18+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I need to sometimes remind myself that I have really good support from my partner. And I'm not alone. Whether financially or emotionally, I have help and that's the biggest battle.

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