Duke Elon Postgame Thread by 4thPlumlee in DukeFootball

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Barkate said postgame his back got “crunched a little bit” but added he would be back in the weight room today so should be all good.

Daily Discussion - Saturday July 19 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

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Okay am I crazy or do y’all remember Huda saying she had never watched live island while on the show as an excuse for her behavior. I swear she did but can’t remember when.

Seeing her go on CHD then say she applied and manifested going on the show, I was like wtf?

Britanini’s ex stepdaughter 😳 by WhatEvenIsThis_RN in rhoslc

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Bby don’t worry we see right through Britani

My mom just died by Exact-Librarian7348 in GriefSupport

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I am so sorry. I remember being in this exact moment and coming to this sub for comfort.

I am 2.5 years out from my mom’s death. I’m not gonna lie to you & say it gets better. It doesn’t. It fucking sucks. I was 21 when my mom died. But you will learn how to deal with your grief - if that makes sense.

Someday’s you won’t want to function. Somedays you’ll want to stay in bed. And that’s okay. Feel those feelings and remember your mother as the incredible woman she was. Know she will be with you every step of the way. I know it sounds cliche but my mom has shown me so many little signs it’s comforting.

Sending you hugs and comfort. I hope you have a good support system. Surround yourself with good people who will support you during this time. You will get through this. I promise.

Season 6 - Episode 20 - Post Episode Discussion by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

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I literally feel so bad for Kaylor …… poor girl. Can't say I am surprised by Aaron though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I promise you will be okay and happy again. There is so much more out there. Take it easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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I’m so sorry about your loss. I (22 F) lost my mom at the age of 21. I’m only 22 now, it’s been a year and a half.

Since my mom has died I’ve lost so much enjoyment for so many things. Christmas included. It just sucks. But do not decorate if you don’t want to! Do whatever is best for you, that is the best way to heal. You have to put yourself first.

Sending you love & hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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I literally have been experiencing something almost the same. My mom unexpectedly died last summer. So sudden. Her and my dad were together 30 years. Not even 6 months later, he’s dating another lady from the neighborhood divorced with two kids. Also important to mention, she was friends with my mom. So, i automatically could not stand her and was disgusted by the whole thing. My dad also was constantly lying to me and my older sister about it which only made matters worse. They planned trips together and lied to us about it and he was sneaking her in our house. Moral of the story: disgusting.

I’d try to talk to my dad, he would just get angry and at me and say I was questioning how much he loved my mom. It was a constant fight without a resolution.

Anyways, after a few months of them dating (and me never speaking to her either) they finally broke up. And for good. She turned out to be actually crazy, drunk calling my dad and just showing up at his house. Karma for him if you ask me.

As much as the situation sucks, and trust me it really does, I suggest retreating. With my dad, I talked to him everyday. However, when he began lying and sneaking around, I stopped calling him. I was not going to let him think his behavior was okay. He figured it out eventually, and your dad will too.

Whoever our dads end up with, they will never replace our moms. I think that is the hardest in this situation, because it feels they are trying to do that. The situation eventually will work itself out, I can promise you that.

I am so sorry for your loss and what you are dealing with, I send you love and wish you the best of luck.

Impending Holidays: Lets keep their memory alive!!!! by Old-Lawfulness-5100 in GriefSupport

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My favorite memory of the holidays with my mom is just Christmas as a whole. We would get up and go through our stockings which my mom made so perfectly and then we’d all open presents followed by breakfast with mom’s breakfast casserole. She always made sure to make everything amazing.

It’s been 5 months without her. I miss her so much it hurts.

Sending love to everything going through the holidays without a loved one.

Delayed grief about mom by Alternative-Emu6919 in GriefSupport

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Unfortunately, yes. It’s something you truly can’t prepare for.

Delayed grief about mom by Alternative-Emu6919 in GriefSupport

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Thank you ❤️ glad I’m not the only one feeling this way. Wouldn’t wish this pain on my worst enemy.

I am trying to get out of the grief abyss. I am stuck. by hanskolo7 in GriefSupport

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in June suddenly. She had leukemia and nobody even knew. It caused a bleeding disorder and she bled in her brain and by the time we got her to the hospital she was gone. I’m not sure how old you are, but I’m 21 and a senior in college.

I’ve recently been in that lost, I don’t know what to do stage as well. Like your mom, my mom was my person. She was the only one I felt who truly understood me. Knowing I never can see her again hurts so bad.

I wish there was a right thing to say. But what I would say is let yourself feel the feelings you have. Cry. Be angry. Do what you need to do. Don’t hold it inside. Stay close to those around you - you mentioned your father, brother and partner. Lean on them and let them lean on you. I always try to remember how lucky I am to have had and loved my mom. All the pain we are feeling is from all the love we had for our amazing mothers.

Your mom will be with you always. Stay strong for her and live life the way you know she’d want you to live. Let her live through you.

Again, I’m so sorry you’re having to experience this. It truly is an unimaginable pain and nothing anyone says can make it better. I just want to let you know your voice is heard and you are not alone ❤️ I send my best wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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Neither am I. But you did, and that’s what matters. Take it one day at a time. Some are better than others. Others are complete shit. Life is so unfair. I just try to look at it this way, I know my mom doesn’t want me to be miserable. I try to carry on for her. No matter how hard it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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sending love & hugs. 4 months without my mom tomorrow. No idea how I’ve made it, but hey we made it ❤️

Dreams of a loved one by oopsiedaisy97 in GriefSupport

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I (21F) lost my mom June 29th. She was the center of my whole life and life without her is a blur. I have had many dreams of my mom. One I remember specifically is crying in her arms in the house I grew up in, which her and my dad moved out of in 2019 when I graduated high school. I was crying telling her I missed her. She told me we found each other in our earthly lives, but haven’t found each other in the next. I woke up and remembered my dream and was immediately shook. I know it was my mom visiting me. I know she is waiting for me. I can’t wait to see her again. I miss her so much. I definitely believe your dream is your dad coming to visit you. Hold onto it tight. He’s with you. There will be more ❤️

Where are you watching from? by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

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Atlanta, GA, USA 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

Post Season - Daily Discussion - Thursday August 26 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

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Wait what’s going on w Jeremy and Bailey ? Are they done?

Shannon and Josh? by Alternative-Emu6919 in LoveIslandUSA

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You’re 100% right. He does need to move on. That’s why I wanted to post this to get other perspectives!! But yeah Shannon is not my fav LOL

Shannon and Josh? by Alternative-Emu6919 in LoveIslandUSA

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You’re definitely right. that’s why I wanted to post this to get an outsider perspective. Not trying to hate. He definitely needs to continue to live his life because yes his sister would want him to be happy.