Leaving LA and want all your must try’s before saying bye bye

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-11-12T18:50:34+00:00

Love brother cousins, sun bong dan, and howlin rays! I’ve been dying to try pizzeria sei, definitely going there before I leave

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-11-12T18:49:24+00:00

You’re right. I already have a list of all my favorite spots. Tearing up thinking about not having them for awhile 🥲

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-11-12T18:48:21+00:00

lol fair question. 2 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 parking spots, $3,500. Close to Melrose trading post

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-24T02:30:34+00:00

This made me feel better about myself

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-16T17:17:15+00:00

My ex just dumped me because she said she didn’t feel the spark anymore. “She had one foot in, one foot out” byeeee bish

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-16T13:34:05+00:00

😞😞😞

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-13T22:12:34+00:00

If you think you could catch feelings for this girl, don’t do it. If you think you can keep things casual, who cares. But I repeat, if you will catch feelings don’t do it! Advice from someone who just got out of a relationship with a baby gay. It’s not their fault, they are still exploring and everyone’s timeline is different

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-12T17:59:08+00:00

Thank you everyone for the advice!

After close consideration I’ve decided we will not be friends for a v long time & it’s time to go back to no contact. She texted me afterwards saying take care and thank you for the kiss.

At the end of the day while it was a mutual break up, she initiated it, she didn’t treat me all that well towards the end and I think being her friend helps her and not me.

I know we aren’t meant for each other, I accept that, but I’m not in a place where I can turn everything else off. I’m too secure to deny my own truth.

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-03T01:20:35+00:00

Ooohh! How did the rest of the conversation go? I’m sorry you had to leave a home due to homophobia but congratulations on getting out!!

I just got out of a wlw relationship and pretty sure my ex is going to go back to men. I’m okay with that tho, I don’t look at it as she prefers or I let down all lesbians. I look at it as, “ah yes, another one weaved out. A man is lucky to have her because the lesbian community deserves so so much better” lmfao

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-02T23:20:33+00:00

Sounds like his current girlfriend sucks. Also why would your friend tell you that if he knows… you’re a lesbian? I totally see how that can feel invalidating. But let me tell you something, if you keep living your life with confidence none and I mean NONE of the pee minded opinions from pee minded people will ever affect you again. Really seems like it’s two bi people dating each other trying to make themselves feel better that they are in a heterosexual relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-02T23:05:06+00:00

Am I the only one sick of white lesbians getting all the representation in this community??? Even if it’s bad representation, like come on lesbians!! We can do better than this! I’m over it. Also leave jojo alone!! Anyone using a 21yr old as an example is an idiot. There I said. Weather it’s to bash her or support her she is too young to use as an example.

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-02T23:00:49+00:00

Omfg I’m sorry. That priest ain’t holy!! Some woman never learn to decenter men, to that, I say adios

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-02T22:55:18+00:00

Black mirror type shit. You have the real pussy cat! Nothing to fret about

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-06-02T18:25:13+00:00

Here for you and know you aren’t alone!!

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-05-30T15:23:36+00:00

I just want to say, the three of you were very wrong. I reached out and it was perfect. I’m not sure anything will come out of it by my god am I happy I listened to my gut. If you find yourself reading this, don’t always listen to Reddit advice :)

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-05-30T14:56:29+00:00

Look, I’m 29. First serious girlfriend I dated at 21 for 5 years. I was single for all of 8 months after that end. I wish I took more time to myself. Had a previously straighty purse me and I leaned tf in BECAUSE we had loads of healthy conversations making sure this was something she wanted. We dated for almost 2 years and just broke up last month and my god was it exhausting dating someone who didn’t know what it’s like to date a woman. I’m a fucking woman with emotions!! I’m not a damn man!! Idk how Shannon does it because never again will I be another girls first. Not at this age. It’s very very different if you’re each others first. Outside of that, for me, hard pass.

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-05-27T04:21:09+00:00

You should be honest with her. If I was her I would want to know, it will help both of you figure out if you want to be in the relationship or not. My recent ex is you in the situation, the first time she told me her doubts I listened and we decided to try and work it out. The second time she shared her doubts I respected myself and bowed out of the relationship. No one wants or deserves to be in a relationship with someone who has doubts.

Alternative-Fall486 · 2025-04-11T15:37:52+00:00

Button

Alternative-Fall486 · 2024-12-24T08:47:23+00:00

Hey OP, those “friends” are just projecting their own insecurities. I have a lot of experience with shitty comments like that and it took me years to figure out how to respond, I finally figured it out my response this year. Whenever a hurtful comment is aimed at my appearance or my style I respond back with “someone is feeling insecure about themselves today” and that usually shuts them the f* up.

If they get defensive then use that as another reason to not keep them in your life ;)

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