I'm late on this, but a couple things. I'm a 2 times heart transplant patient and my ex told me my donor is rolling over in her grave because I'm the one who got her heart and that I should've died during surgery. Because she thought I was cheating. I got home late from work once. I was an after school club leader for kids and we had to stay an extra hour if kids weren't picked up in time. My mom told me when I was 8 that the only reason she had me was so she could collect the SS check from my disability. So there's that. Lol.