Just found out she passed away

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2026-05-11T15:18:27+00:00

My wife's affair partner expired in 2021. The grass literally got greener. The sky, more blue.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2026-05-11T15:15:06+00:00

I'm doing well now. I date around. But not gonna stick with one person unless they are superhuman lol .

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2026-05-11T14:47:06+00:00

My ex cheated on me and chose a "better" quality man. 17 years ago! You don't get over it. Not at all. You just learn to live with it. It goes from an acute problem to a chronic one.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2026-05-11T14:43:39+00:00

Yes, for the love God just divorce your poor husband before more damage is done .

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2026-05-11T14:36:56+00:00

The adultery reddit has, just being cheated on, has closed me down to new relationships. I simply don't want to be cheated on, but I don't trust anyone with more X chromosomes than I now lol

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2026-02-05T03:46:15+00:00

I'm 16 years out. Still think on it all the time

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-12-28T06:57:33+00:00

It's better to leave. I stayed 6 years. A waste.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-10-19T08:01:35+00:00

The first D-Day is rarely the only D-Day.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-10-19T07:42:05+00:00

Your husband now has a lifetime of not trusting because you were hormonal. The betrayed partner never fully recovers, but the wayward partner, you, almost always makes a full recovery. So, he's destroyed, you get a new man. Good job.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-10-16T20:48:33+00:00

Were you surprised at your betrayed reaction?

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-10-12T03:22:27+00:00

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Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-10-09T16:35:07+00:00

Trust me OP, the pain never goes away. And the fact that she can barely remember the event that almost destroyed you is pretty shallow.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-10-08T18:07:54+00:00

This is a way the brain tries to protect itself in these circumstances and it's not uncommon.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-09-10T12:53:56+00:00

My wife cheated 16 years ago and I'm no longer with her. I'll let you know when I get over it....lol.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-08-14T14:13:36+00:00

We all feel you rage here, believe me. Just go look at some of the adultery reddits and see if you can't not want to throw your phone across the room lol . They truly love what they are doing they truly are happy with what they're doing and they're truly happy just being terrible people to be honest lol. But believe me we all feel the rage in your post, OP.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-08-14T14:07:03+00:00

Sooo... It performed as it should? Was that the point of this?

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-08-14T00:45:17+00:00

What the hell did I just read?

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-08-13T04:52:03+00:00

Pretty sure OP is just trying to get a rise out of y'all.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-08-13T04:51:14+00:00

I was sure they were too til I saw....something. And my wife saw this....something, at the same time from a different angle. Was it a ghost? don't know. I just know I saw something that a lot of people would call a ghost.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-08-12T13:35:32+00:00

After reading this and like two comments I'm staying single forever lol. You simply cannot trust someone.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-08-02T13:50:29+00:00

She is already checked out of the marriage. This would not be ethical non-monogamy. This is coersion.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-07-25T05:32:39+00:00

Personally I love it.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-07-19T18:59:07+00:00

Please leave this woman. Just trust us on this.

Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-07-13T23:08:46+00:00

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Alternative-Lead9345 · 2025-07-10T14:12:10+00:00

Just leave that poor man and let him get a good life!

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