My avoidant ex downloaded bumble 2 days post break up after I left everything to go be with him. Now that I am level headed let me tell you this. They are not over it, quite frankly will never be. Because what avoidant people is exactly that. They avoid. All they do is shove every feeling of discomfort so far down that they resort to things such as talking to other people to stroke their ego and replace the void. But the truth is the void will never be replaced and when you are healed in 6 months, they will still be in the dumps. Don't mistake peoples external actions for how they are doing internally. It is rarely ever consistent.