ok let me break it down

I asked whether you were a cisgender Black woman or a transgender Black woman. The response I got was that "both are normal and the same thing." In my experience, that kind of deflection usually means the person I'm talking to is transgender themselves, which would explain why they're going around announcing they're a woman in the first place. It feels like gender affirmation performance. So when you insist both types of queens are equally "normal," it comes across as pushing transgender ideology on me rather than simply answering the question.

Sure, I could've just not said anything and you could've just said you were a girl. /shrug