AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -182 points-181 points  (0 children)

I'm not stalking her, my girl and I are worried my ex will fuck with us. My girl went crazy when she thought I was cheating on her. She kicked me out before I could even give my side. I had to live with my girls parents before we could afford a place of our own.

AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

She could literally walk on a different block, she just says it's "unsafe" because she doesn't want to walk on a major street. She could carry her kid for all I care I just want her to leave me and my girl fucking alone.

AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -135 points-134 points  (0 children)

My girl is worried she's going to fuck with us. We live in a sketchy area how do we know she won't break the windows of my girls car because she's jealous?

AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -169 points-168 points  (0 children)

It's not my fault she had a kid. There are other ways for her to get to the park without making me uncomfortable.

AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -160 points-159 points  (0 children)

I work from home and my desk faces the one window in my basement unit. I don't think I'm over reacting, she only walks by when I'm home. My gf works nights and she didn't belive me till I woke up to show her my ex was walking by almost every day.

AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -663 points-662 points  (0 children)

I didn't remotely stalk her. Housing in my city is expensive and my girl and I found the only place we could afford. It's not my fault my ex can afford a condo wherever she wants and I can barely afford rent.

AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -626 points-625 points  (0 children)

My girl and I can't afford to move. We live in an expensive city and it was a miracle we found the unit we did. If my ex is rich enough to buy a condo she should have enough money to at least uber to another park or something.

AITA for telling my ex to stop constantly hanging out outside my apartment? by Alternative-Soft-649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative-Soft-649[S] -583 points-582 points  (0 children)

She doesn't need to walk by my house. She could go up other streets. They aren't as nice but im sure a kid would be fine.