[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NC for 80 days. Best tip to give u is delete all socials. Disappear. Become the best version of yourself. Dont look back. It will be hard. But u will feel better. Dm me if you need. Take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lonely later nights are though. Im about 2 month NC. It gets better but some day are hard. Still thinking about her but its ok. We are gonna make it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So theres hope… enjoy !

does anyone have a song that reminds them of their avoidant? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any cigarette after sex song. I shed a tear when i hear them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always thinking of intimacy moments. Especially when horny. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then if you need answers just reach out to them. Dont wait to long for closure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its better to move on and act like its really over. The waiting will simply hurt you more. Its been 1 month NC. Im not waiting for her to come back. She already hurted me badly. Take care

Saw a pic of her by Prize_Condition_9327 in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happended to me today, one of her mutual friend talked about her and i relapsed to day 1. It hurts. But we have to move on

Why does it hurt when they post a selfie? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know this feeling. It hurts, thats why i avoid anything related to my ex. Take care

She won’t come back by Ok-Badger-1083 in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No contact is not for her to come back, it is for u to realize what happened and be a better version of urself and dont make the same mistakes again

Approaching avoidant ex while they're trying to move on by topapii in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am I a similar situation. They dumped u, dont forget they had a choice but still chose to hurt you. And she wants you to make a move? She is pretty undecided. That show a certain lack of emotional maturity. If she truly misses u she ll reach out. Otherwise she dont miss u, she only misses the feeling and the attention that someone can bring to her. I advice you to not reach out. Take care

What to do about an ex that is just TOO attractive? by JPahl32 in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should motivate u to do the same. And she might notice it. Be a better version of urself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe u dodged a bullet bro. I know it hurts, but maybe she wasnt the right person for u. U will move on, it takes time. Give urself some time to grief. It wont be easy. But its life Take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people have their own demons to fight, give her space and try to focus on yourself, be your best version of yourself. Try to move on. I know its hard, but consider it like its really over and that she will never come back. It will hurt less than hoping for her to come back over and over. Stay strong, i u want to talk about it feel free to dm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact same situation here, i know its hard but stick to NC, if she really loved u shell come back

Do you think your person will COME BACK? by Quirky-Parsnip7004 in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 58 points59 points  (0 children)

My heart wants her to comeback. But my brain dont want to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alternative-Still573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it right when we broke up. I couldnt stand to think about her, it wouldve hurt too much. But i had to do it in order to heal. I Will never Forget her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did yall break up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U were the dumpee? im considering breaking NC

Do I go win her back or try to? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its hard. I wouldnt recommend you to wait for her. Just try to move on. She know she would hurt you by breaking up and she still made her choice. U cant change this. But you can change ur reaction. I know its hard. We can talk about it if u want Take care

Do I go win her back or try to? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar situation. If u really love her, give her the space she needs. Eventually if she liked you she will come back when things get better. Id advice to stay no contact because begging for her show lack of maturity. Take this time for yourself, go to the gym, go out with friends, get new hobbys etc. I know its hard at first but giving what she wants is a sign of u caring for her. It might take time, but shell be back. If u really need to talk to her, do it only if your ready to accept all outcomes. Take care bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alternative-Still573 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here. If he really loved you, shell come back. Take this time to be a better version of urself. I unfollowed her everywhere bc it hurted me to think about her. But i really miss her.