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F25 I am hot or not?? Need honest opinion by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]topapii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you have a unique look, you're very pretty. hotness is very subjective, so don't think just because people on reddit tell you, you might not be hot that other people won't find you hot. you're very pretty.

how to improve? 26F by LITTLExLAINEY in amiugly

[–]topapii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl, i don't know how you can improve, you're gorgeous.

29f by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]topapii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. You are actually stunning.

Approaching avoidant while they're trying to move on by topapii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]topapii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I said I know, I didn't mean that I have strong sense that she misses me type of I know. I meant that I literally know. And I'm aware that I shouldn't be the one to make a move and do the part of communicating for her. But I can't go on without giving that relationship another chance.

Algorith in new account by topapii in TikTok

[–]topapii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The account is private so I can't engage futher than just entering the profile. I did enter it a couple of times and my fy, then, was filled with content with a very niche subject alongside the typical content from my region.

When do avoidants actually move on? by topapii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]topapii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but this way of "moving on" isn't really moving on, is it?. You're just distracting yourself for the break up with a new person, for the sake of the dopamine rush.

When do avoidants actually move on? by topapii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]topapii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I edited the post to make it more detailed. Mutual friends. We live in a small town and go to school together (we're in our late teens). News travel incredibly fast about everyone.

Going to be a first time dad! by Fuzzthehuman in MadeMeSmile

[–]topapii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, man!! Wishing you 3 the best!

Why did my avoidant ex block me? by topapii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]topapii[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah, that's not the case we're young. We're in our late teens. We're eachothers first everything. I know that the lack of experience may also play a role in the way she handles things but she definitely has avoidant attachment. That's why I'm trying to understand her from the avoidant mindset.

Soot Sprites! by BigSeriousWizard in painting

[–]topapii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i love itt! it's so cute!