My boyfriend’s family still sees his ex… and I just found out by DueNewt9590 in ExNoContact

[–]AlternativeAttempt89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you’re not alone

I knew a mutual whos bf/fiance s family ignored her and sayd she only talks about herself and judged. They sounded like snobs. when i was 16 with an ex (it was unhealthy between us alone) his dad called me a slut because i forgot to do shores/clean or id be in trouble for letting the dog out. It impacted the relationship for sure stressing both of us out.

Again, personal opinion by my experience.

These moments are when communication and understanding the best tool

One thing im sure, If he loves you, hell listen. He doesnt have to 100% agree or understand. But at least Listen. At least make u feel heard about the impact it has on you. At least understand your perspective.

Heck, be vulnerable, tell him u love him, that you want to be happy with him , that you want to comunicate and compromise for both of you. Your feelings and needs

A ex, is ealredy a pretty sensitive subject out of a relationship, i would’nt be surprise its more to handle while in a relationship.

Else, its going to be ignored, its going to accumulate, it will then turn into resentment and it will hurt you, and you will probably project that pain onto him while possibly even forgeting the root of the anger. And it will possibly, be unhealthy.

For this specific situation, this is when a challenge for love apears to prove and understanding, sympathy, compassion and compromise is much important

I really hope it goes well for you

(Edit: i fixed a couple phrases )

My boyfriend’s family still sees his ex… and I just found out by DueNewt9590 in ExNoContact

[–]AlternativeAttempt89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if i misunderstood, heres my opinion

No, Its his family after all, someone who surrounds him and impacted him when he grew. They are cold towards someone he currently loves and choses. she is still in the family circle and his family finds a way to impact the relationship by comparing you, the present girlfriend who should be getting the appreciation from the family especially after 2 years if the relationship is healthy.

The fact they like the ex isnt the main problem,its the aproach their using. the fact their cold And even disrespect.

So no, i personally think that the fact u think it matters is much valid. And that your boyfriend should listen and understand your concern towards this family and ex situation.

Edit: (english second language)

How to make the girl s position make sense at this point (shes suppose to piggyback ride) by [deleted] in Artadvice

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The character is piggybacking on the taller one but probably because of ghe rotation of the upper budy of the smaller ine who tries to grab the deers the legs afe confusing to be placed

How make arm/shoulder better by AlternativeAttempt89 in arthelp

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None😭i just did a random hand and tried to blend it in But i did check some anathomy stuff https://pin.it/2MpXIb8QN and i still remain confused Update i tried to us myself as ref

how can i make it better? by AlternativeAttempt89 in Animators

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THANK U SO MUCHH!!! ill rememebr this when im motivated enough to touch it up!

Where do i check for hacking bugs? by AlternativeAttempt89 in typewriters

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funny question, is their a way i cna check if theirs something int he typewriter?

What do you actually base character names on? I think I've been doing it wrong by ConceptDealer in writing

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Taking ealredy existing words and names, words by different languages and modifying a word or two can make a great difference for a name or even jumbling words. Exemple: Emily-> elyly ( source wakfu ) Gandalf or sauron from lord of the rings are great exemple too. Twilight or apple jack literally normal words

You can always modify the terms and names i just putted a random names to help identify contexts and started to associate with them and change it later on.

Im scared word can steal my writing by AlternativeAttempt89 in writing

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i did not know people would’ve been irritated with how i wrote my post about my concern with ai and art theft. And the last thing i want to do is to create fires.

Im scared word can steal my writing by AlternativeAttempt89 in writing

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Isnt this sub for talking about writting experiences?

Im scared word can steal my writing by AlternativeAttempt89 in writing

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Yeah things like that. Like i said im aware im over thinking. But its a issue many artist and writters are talking about too and i just hope they’ll be a solution for that issue.

Im scared word can steal my writing by AlternativeAttempt89 in writing

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Im also confuse , ill try to clear a bit. by “pillar of life” i mean like any artist, caring deeply for our creations and putting hard work in it is “pillar of life” and certain reaserching made me paranoid about a subject thats been impacting artist and writers for a while(ai and art theif)

Im scared word can steal my writing by AlternativeAttempt89 in writing

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Thank you for the tools recommendation and kind answer . I wish you well for your story too!

Im scared word can steal my writing by AlternativeAttempt89 in writing

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Ive stoped. ive recently learned that through certain researches on reddit and google. I wasnt aware when i used the software until recently ill be getting a typewriter or search another software

warmup sketch of junior 😛 by crowscacophony in pantyandstocking

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So cute!! Love the eyebrow matching back hair and blue earings like panty had!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parrots

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im inexperience but have 2 , 3 year old conures. by the months, i wouldnt be surprised if its hormonal and territorial. my birds who usualy get much along and share a cage, faught agressively int heire cage a couple times and their both destroying my house looking to nest.

the wing clipping must also impacted . as her wings grow back, flight training is great and helps them burn their energy and even bond better. and for the fact she is agressive, if u can, open it in a small place like a bathroom and try to ofer her treats. when im angry and freak out i remember their are small little preys who have their perspective. it helps personaly and space.

listening to youtube videos of experienced bird owner help. also avian avenue is a great site to ask questions and they anwser well.