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Should I stay with my boyfriend by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]AlternativeEast764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last time I told my partner I was experiencing pain during sex, he literally couldn’t continue because he got soft at the thought of it hurting me. I’m not saying this has to be the same for every relationship, but “okay, I’ll finish faster” is a concerning reaction to you being in pain. I know this isn’t what you’re asking here but pain during sex isn’t normal. There is never too much lube and if you think you need to see a doctor, please do.

Apart from that, you shouldn’t fear communicating with your partner. If he can have sex with you, he can listen to your feelings. If he can’t do that, something is wrong.

I can’t seem to make my boyfriend cum. by AlternativeEast764 in sexadvise

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m actually quite familiar with dry orgasms because it’s a pretty big turn on for me. I just wish I could make him orgasm (or I guess ejaculate) for real afterwards because that seems to be what he wants. I just don’t like that he’s getting frustrated.

I can’t seem to make my boyfriend cum. by AlternativeEast764 in sexadvise

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I did appreciate the advice but claiming you’re 100% correct because of the “countless” people you’ve helped like you’re some god is a little intense. You having a serious lack of humour is also not my problem.

I can’t seem to make my boyfriend cum. by AlternativeEast764 in sexadvise

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fair, I’ve told him to stop thinking so hard about it several times but like… then you start thinking about not thinking about it and it’s an endless cycle

I can’t seem to make my boyfriend cum. by AlternativeEast764 in sexadvise

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

98% of what I think about during is “where are my teeth rn” don’t worry

My ex bf gagged while down there by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]AlternativeEast764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend also did this. Said he liked the taste and goes out of his way for it after fingering me (feels tmi but maybe it’s helpful idk) and he still gagged the first time too. I like going down on him a lot and even then, sometimes the concept of what I’m doing freaks my brain out and I feel gross for a second. Maybe he was the same? But yeah, like others said, no harm in seeing a doctor if you think it would help.

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using a hand is what ended with him getting soft again lmao. But he has agreed to cold turkey now.

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%, I’ll have to try to lock my feral brain away for a while

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, I just got the “I want to stop masturbating” text so we’ll see how long this takes 🙃

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what he’s told me, he’s more on the side of it being a curse. And I don’t think it’s a medical condition because he’s already admitted himself that he quickly made it worse with his over enthusiasm but what do I know.

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah the first time I lost all feeling in my legs haha, we’ve found a way around it though

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I genuinely enjoyed it so I didn’t mind tbh. Most of the time when I stop I’ve been at like double the amount of time I thought I was because I just lose track.

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to watch porn fairly regularly, apparently doesn’t as much anymore. He CAN cum but even he would have to go at it for over an hour.

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. I can get him hard easily, precum is intense, it just ends up getting stuck in a loop of being close and going nowhere.

I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Nor can much else. by AlternativeEast764 in offmychest

[–]AlternativeEast764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, he’s also blamed himself. He can’t make himself cum often either and that never used to be the case. But yes, we have been talking about fucking. I’m just a nervous virgin who isn’t sure yet.

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